friendship problems-what should i do?

Question

me and my friend are so close its scary, we do everything together..and shes my ONLY friend cuz if we get any other friends we seem to get jealous like if i hung out with a other friend and she wasnt there she'd get mad, and the other way around. another thing is if one of us were to get a bf the other one would get sooo pissed..what should i do..its a really weird friendship but she is a good friend, what should i do?

Answer 1

Ok,that is a realli weird friendship,but anyways....
U should talk to her,tell her what u think bout that n that u have a gud time wif her,that she is reallli gud friend,but that u don't realli lyk some stuffs bout your friendship and maybe she thinks the same just she was afraid to tell ya that thinkin that u'll get mad,so maybe the only thing she's waitin is u-to talk bout your problems that u av wif her,
kisses

Answer 2

I've probably never had a friendship like that but you should have friends beside her (for problems like these) but they should also know who she is, since she is your best friend and you should introduce all your friends. Same thing when it comes to having a bf, just make sure everyone gets along if not dump him, a friendship is way better than anything you'll have with a boy. And you should be happy she has friends beside you or a boy friend. I would only get pissed if they concentrated more on that person than me but that's life, most of the time they don't last anyway so just make sure you're there for each other.

Answer 3

obvoiusly you two are all eachother have. the reason for the jealousy is because if one of you get a bf, the other feels as if they are being left out and/or that you will forget about them or leave them alone too much. What i think you should do is talk it over with your best friend. tell them how you feel and they should understand. and if one of you get a boyfriend, he should be perfectly content with hanging out with both of you. you should also see if he has any friends your friend can hang out with. and as long as you two want to stay together, you may need to spend some time apart. too much time together could result in fights or jealousy. you could also looks for mutual friends. someone that you both agree on. but you know that if you do get into a relationship or involve any other friends, you know that your best friend was there before them, and there place should always come first.

Answer 4

What it is is a young immature friendship. That's not a bad thing...just the truth. The two of you will learn to be more supportive of each other as you get older. When the two of you mature a bit, you will realize that you should have other friends, and you should certainly allow each other the freedom to date and get ready for marriage someday. A good healthy relationship of any kind, including friendships must allow each other room to grow, without the fear of jealousy. You will learn this in time...the key word is time, you are young, you've got lots of time to figure relationships out.

Answer 5

Hey i've had this problem before. My best friend would talk about me when i started hanging out with this guy. She would say that i was picking him over her and i was wrong for that. When i had told her that i really liked him and he was fun to hang out with she got really mad and i thought it was weird i mean friends are suppose to be happy for you. You shoul talk to her about it. Not even the strongest friendships should be like that. It sounds more like a relationship then a friendship. If she's really a good friend she'll understand.

Answer 6

i think that is seriosly one wierd friendship.but i think i can tell you what me and my friend did when both of us moved to new school and the same thing happened.but that was more likethe other felt lonely not pissed. you could try getiing common friends i.e some person who is both your friend.but about the bf thing you should sit down talk it over and solve the problem .it might seem wierd telling her about this problem but the faster you solve it the closer you get.if you get a friend intro her to your friend and all three of you can hang out.when you get a bf you can tell her that you really like him and there was nothing to get pissede off about unless she liked him tooo.so get talking coz in any relationship commmunication is very important.

Answer 7

It's not a weird friendship, it's a 'sick' unhealthy frindship!!
From what you are telling us, sounds to me like you are
both 'control freaks', and I feel sorry for 'any' guy who ever has the misfortune of dating either one of you.
First off, it's so childish to get jealous if either of you wants to date someone.
How ignorant is that!!
Secondly, you're coming across as though your girlfriend is the problem here, when in reality you are 'BOTH' in need of some
serious councelling.
I'd hate to think what could, or probably would happen if one of you fell in love.
I think someone would get their heads blown off, and I'm not joking, not from what you've said here.
You 'BOTH' need to GROW UP!!

Answer 8

Don't include her in everthing you do. By you even noticing that she is mad is giving her the "attention" she wants. Maybe you shoudl question if she is really a friend to want you all to herself. Distance never hurt anyone.

Answer 9

no it isnt a young immature friendshipbut it isnt a healthy one either!!!! i know you2 will be best friends forever but you both do live your own lives!!!! umayget a bf or she may get a bf but u 2 will always be there for each other no matter what

Answer 10

just ask herr whyy will shee get pissedd, andd tell herr howw youu feel aboutt urr relationshipp *** frienddds