Im always saying to myself im only a kid for so long so use ur time wisely. And my birthdays coming up and ill NEVER get to be 13 again. you see i hate the word always and never and im scared.. i mean ill never get to be carried to bed or get alot of attention or get lots of stuff for holidays.
Im scared to death and since im so worried about it im wasting my time.
And when people say live in the moment..well time flys by when ur having fun and i dont want it to fade away
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2006-12-26 17:01:16 · 10 answers · asked by sleighbells 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Other - Entertainment
Hey. I no exactly how you feel. I am always too thinking about time and at the end of the day i think back on that day and on those days i sit at home and do nothing i get mad at myself and think wow that day i will never get back this minute i will never re-live and think i totally blew it but then again you cant live life to the fullest all the time. I wish we could go back in time redo things look at the future and prepare for stuff but the truth of the matter is WE CANT. its never going to happen and be that way so we have to live around it. and also you talked about live in the moment..i always try to do that but again you cant do that always or you life would be crap you have to think ahead think of consequences you no what i mean. it really sucks thinking we cant go back and re-live something over and over again. so i guess i really dont have much to say about answering your question really but i would like to see what other people say. i guess we just need to slow down..this is life babe and its got to be lived and its going to keep going whether we like it or not. so live it up have fun and dont think about it, everytime you do think about jsut think who cares , this is my life, and as long a your happy with your life you will be fine.
hope it helped. but ugh relax and have fun.
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2006-12-26 17:22:02 · answer #1 · answered by tif 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, take a deep breath and calm down. You are only 13. Stop worrying about spending your time wisely and start wasting it. You have the rest of your life to have everything planned for you.
And yes, you will have some nevers in your lifetime. If we all had the same experiences growing up, it would be a very boring world. As you get older, you will see how not having everything your friends did helps shape you into a unique person. I am twice your age plus some years, and I am facing some of the same things. Like I will never have anyone give me away at my wedding, and I may never get married. I may never own a house. Notice, I say may, and you should too. You can't know what the future holds for you.
It seems you need to talk to an adult you trust about your anxiety. Being nervous all the time is a very stressful way to live.
2006-12-26 17:12:34 · answer #2 · answered by wildflower12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CALM DOWN!!!! Worrying about time is only going to make time go faster for you. LIVE IN THE MOMENT!!!!! take it slow. Have fun......take each day and live it. Yes you'll never get that day back so enjoy it. stop worrying so much, you're seriously wasting that time you could be enjoying by worrying. Spend it will people you love, trust me in the end you won't regret a thing. You'll have the best memories of you and your family and friends and you'll look back and say man I had a great time!!!!! So stop worrying, and I know it won't be easy just start little by little. When u start worrying just work on something, read or write or sing or go play or something but get ur mind off of it. Good luck ok?
2006-12-26 18:13:12 · answer #3 · answered by yleemoreno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live every day to the fullest and make each day count. But for now slow down and stop worrying so much. You are too young for all this. Your life is just now getting started and soon you will have a lot of good times.
2006-12-26 17:11:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sssslllloooowwww dddooowwwnnn!!!!!! and force yourself to enjoy the moment. It can help to meditate. Get a book from the library, just a simple book,no eastern meditation crap. This will train you how to sit and be still, you can get a lot of joy out of that and then feel like you are really living in the moment. Good luck.
2006-12-26 17:04:52 · answer #5 · answered by jabbergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...if you are 12 now, aren't you a bit old to be carried to bed anyways and if you are getting lots of stuff for the holidays now why on earth would it change cause you are getting older? you need to stop worrying about that really...one thing i know for sure is that just enjoy being careless. that's what kids should be able to do. be careless, not selfish, just be able to live happily day to day, doing their homework, learning in school and being good to their families and friends. enjoy your fun times, make happy memories for yourself now and build friendships to last a lifetime possibly. try and relax.
2006-12-26 17:09:14 · answer #6 · answered by Jessy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah.... you're trying too much! since you're only thirteen, don't think about "never" and "always' too much. it is true that time flies by when you're having fun, but isn't that better than being bored while having time go by so slowly?
don't worry about time, you can't do anything about it anyways. why don't you go the mall with your friends and spend your christmas money together, so that when you're older, you can think about how fun it was to bond with your friends on a christmas break or sumthing...
2006-12-26 17:08:57 · answer #7 · answered by tike16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a lot like me, i matured WAY to fast, so i never got to be a kid. so now i try to be a kid ( I'm 14 ) so i'm just trying to chill just in joy life and stop caring so much, but i am failing at that sadly. but you need to just chill, in joy life when you still have one. trust me on this one you NEED to stop caring so much, or you end up like me, you don't want to be me. don't stop your self from having fun, if you want to be a kid, all kids worry about is having fun. so if you stop your self from having fun then you are not a kid, your a teenagerl. witch is not a bad thing, but every teenage needs to just be a kid. hoped this helped
2006-12-26 21:18:23 · answer #8 · answered by fallen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel like this some times. Everytime I think about something I won't be able to do in the future, I think about something I will be able to do in the future. Drive, Vote, Drink, etc. There are many happy times in the future.
2006-12-26 17:13:53 · answer #9 · answered by jsav 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a smart kid but you worry too much...just enjoy everyday and live life to the max.
It's fun to be a grown up too, you'll see
2006-12-26 18:56:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋