2006-12-26 16:58:35 · 25 answers · asked by Michelle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the only reason anyone goes clubbing is to find someone to sleep with....why would you go clubbing if youre married??
2006-12-26 17:00:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Going to a club is not always about finding someone. I recently went out with my cousin, my best friend, and my sister. I am happily married with a toddler, my cousin had a baby four weeks ago, and my sister was getting married that weekend, and has a 4 month old. We danced with each other. Any time a guy started getting too close, we would show our rings and they would back off. We started the dance floor, and even started showing off pictures of our babies! Just because you're married and a parent doesn't mean you can't have fun, and wanting to dance with friends does not make you unfaithful. My man knew where I was the entire time, and who I was with. If you guys have a problem being apart and trusting each other, your relationship isn't stable.
2006-12-26 17:16:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It all depends on what you're looking for. There's absolutely nothing wrong with going to a club for a few drinks & dancing. I don't know why people who enjoy those two activities think they have to give them up once they are in a couple. Of course you might not go out as often as you did when you were single but the desire is still there. If you or your spouse is collecting phone numbers & flirting then I'd say clubbling is not a good idea anymore.
2006-12-26 17:04:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why if you are married would you want to go clubbing separately. You go clubbing to find someone new. So you are looking for trouble.
2006-12-26 17:05:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you go clubbing separately and you can trust one another then
go for it, but if you just want to go **** around then why get married. You can have a good time at a night club with out your
husband or wife if he or she chooses not to go and gives the okay
to go but just go have fun and not **** up. Not everyone is for it and that is okay. People whom go to clubs and cheat on their
spouse is not because they found someone knew right there and
then, because their relationship has been shady before hand
and they want to blame the girls at the night club. Those bitches
are just waiting for a moment for their **** up but the stronger
ones can make them look stupid at the end. And I'm talking about the guys and the girls. So it just depends on the person. We
go out just to have a good time not to **** around.
2006-12-26 17:13:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i dont know about every1 else but i go clubbing for entertainment, i like the music, the atmosphere, and just the fact of meeting new people not to pick up but to give me some new hype in my life. There is nothing wrong with it. Some couple dont even like to go clubbing together and that fine, just as long as its not because you are getting bored of the relationship and its all just to get out and enjoy yourself, just because your married dont mean that you total have to be a boring maid.
2006-12-26 17:04:53 · answer #6 · answered by Bex 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
No, I do NOT think going clubbing separately is alright if you are married. It's definitely LOOKING FOR TROUBLE.
2006-12-26 17:01:07 · answer #7 · answered by tooyoung2bagrannybabe 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It depends on how good the relationship is. I was in one once where the guy didn't mind if I went clubbing with the "Girls" once in a while. We did NOT go out looking for people to sleep with. We were all bartenders and after work we liked to go out dancing, and maybe having a drink, to unwind from work.
2006-12-26 17:07:33 · answer #8 · answered by BONNI 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is NOT ok to go clubbing alone if you are married. That is asking for trouble!!!
2006-12-26 17:19:09 · answer #9 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't be going "clubbing" at all. While it's ok for a husband and wife to have their nights out, I don't see any reason to go to clubs. Knowing what goes on at clubs, it's only asking for trouble.
2006-12-26 17:03:43 · answer #10 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
okay i am going to give it to you this way!i am married and i have gone clubbing and to a male stripe bar and did not do anything but that is me and my husband .......I think it depends on the person and the relationship but to me if you are strong in the marriage then why not because if men can do it why can't we.........
2006-12-26 17:15:49 · answer #11 · answered by missy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋