my girl came home 2 hours late and she has 2 round purple marks on her neck and her back has scratches on it? what do you think it is?or am i over reacting..i don't know what to do.I asked her and she gets really nervous and says don't worry about it.How would you handle that with your mate?
2006-12-26 16:49:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
duhh.........
2006-12-26 17:33:10 · answer #1 · answered by rememberns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my spouse had come home with scratches and two hickeys on their neck, I'd totally flip. There is no way, other than having someone suck really hard on your neck, to get those hickeys. I don't know how she possibly explained those to you without making her look like a complete liar, my heart goes out to you. All the best hon, you deserve someone who appreciates you and can be faithful.
2006-12-27 00:57:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is the curse of monogamy that we tie one another down into unhealthy non viable relationships. This should be a hint that these simply do not work in the long run.
If you want to hold on to her then change your ways and see that that happens. Just be aware that if you leave you will find someone new and this will probably happen all over again.
2006-12-27 01:03:59 · answer #3 · answered by avishtevi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her who she is having sex with. You have your suspicions already...you can either stay in denial until you are ready to deal with it or confront her with the evidence and get a full account of her where abouts for the 2 hours...check her story do not wimp out on it because she gives you a guilt trip. Good Luck.
2006-12-27 00:57:55 · answer #4 · answered by MARY L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can a girl has scratches on her back? as far as I know, only guys get the scratch on the back but not the girl. Unless she was doing it with a girl. If so, then you need to invite her over for a threesome.
2006-12-27 01:00:23 · answer #5 · answered by Confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She thinks you are a dummy! Sounds like she went out and had some fun without you. They sound like hickies to me, although scratch marks are usually caused from women. Is she bi-sexual at all? lol But seriously she cheated on you. If you want to work it out get some answers, demand them. Put your foot down. But I think if she is going to continue to lie about it you should leave her.
2006-12-27 03:22:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you kidding?? You really don't know what those marks are?
How would I handle it, I would be single and be finding someone else to put those marks on me
2006-12-27 01:01:56 · answer #7 · answered by Some Blonde Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would kick her out, that's how i would handle it. she's cheating on you! my once upon a time fiance used to come home with scratch marks on the backs of his arms and told me that they were from his shirts being too tight. when actually they were from some other biotch's nails. don't be fooled honey. she's cheating on you.
2006-12-27 00:52:55 · answer #8 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will also need to consider YOUR health issues. You know like STD. I wouldn't even have sex w/her anymore..ewwww!! Gross! Unless you lay out plastic, so there's no touchy business going on..yuck, dude. Give her the toss and find a respectful gf.
2006-12-27 00:58:03 · answer #9 · answered by jcsas_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you did not ride to school on the short bus, then don't start riding it now. You know what the scratches are, she slept with someone else. LEAVE.
2006-12-27 00:52:13 · answer #10 · answered by suzey Q 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How else would those marks have gotten there? If she's not willing to explain, go with your gut feeling, it is usually right.
2006-12-27 00:52:48 · answer #11 · answered by Kritikopoula 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋