IS It ODD FOR TWO FRIENDS MALE AND FEMALE TO GO TO MOVIES AS FRIENDS? HE IS SEPERATED BUT TRYING RECONCILE.?
HE COMES TO ME FOR ADVICE. THEY ARE NOT LIVING TOGETHER BUT IS REALLY TRYING TO MAKE IT WORK. IS IT ODD HE ASK ME TO GO TO MOVIE WITH HIM?
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I don't think it is odd, but my other friends think so.
2006-12-26 15:55:01 · 20 answers · asked by superstar2007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Stay away from him if he's separated, but still married to another woman. Do not go to movies with him. It's not a healthy relationship. The above people are wrong, and I must say that a lot of people on this board are not qualified to answer.
IF YOU DIDN'T FEEL THAT SOMETHING DIDN'T SEEM RIGHT, YOU WOULDN'T BE ASKING THE QUESTION!
2006-12-26 15:58:04 · answer #1 · answered by Joe C 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think twice about going out to a movie or shopping or hanging out alone with male friends, but a lot of my female friends think it's something akin to cheating on my boyfriend for some reason. Most people just can't imagine a purely platonic relationship between a man and a woman. If it gets unbearable, both of you could just start telling people you've discovered you're distantly related and then everyone will shut up.
2006-12-26 16:04:38 · answer #2 · answered by Cat Loves Her Sabres 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's odd, but I also don't think it's healthy. He's using you as an emotional crutch right now. If he's truly trying to reconcile, he'd be talking to his wife instead of doing things that would make her uncomfortable. This way he can whine to you and make it look like he's being a nice guy without actually doing the work.
2006-12-26 16:04:19 · answer #3 · answered by Shane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geesh..........If he is trying to reconcile he needs to NOT hang out with any woman no matter how close a freind he is to you.
You could be the thing that keeps him from reconciling. NO married man should be going out with even a friend who is a lady. He should stop depending on you for emotional support.
You might be the thing that keeps them getting back together.
If you are a true friend STOP going to movies or hanging out with him.
You might not see anytyhing wrong with it, but other people do........so they and me, just might be right.
It is even odder that he has asked you to move in with him.
You are playing with fire. You, him, his wife......or all of you will be set up for a big drama.
Steer clear of him. Geesh moving in with a married man is a very slutish thing to do even if you never touch each other.
I have a feeling he needs help with the rent.......he needs to find a male roomie.
2006-12-26 16:30:58 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I dont think this is odd at all, you both know were you stand and you both enjoy each others company, just as friends. Its only a problem when he does get back with his girl and she dont like it. but if she understood that you guys are just friends then who cares. your other friends just dont understand. I got heaps of guy mates and find that the advice is better from the male mates than from my girl mates.
2006-12-26 16:15:46 · answer #5 · answered by Bex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um yes I think its very ODD. If hes trying to get back with his wife why would he wanna go to the movies with ANY girl. Just put ur place in the wife's shoes. How would you feel if your partner was trying to get back with you but he goes to the movies with his "friend".???
2006-12-26 16:00:31 · answer #6 · answered by Country Girl 08 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its not odd but keep your eyes and ears open. Let him know that you only want to go as freinds and dont let it go further than that. Let him know that you don't want to be the cause of future problems if such situations arize. Other than that no its not weird or odd to have men that are just freinds i do it all the time.
2006-12-26 15:58:12 · answer #7 · answered by nina b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 00:44:23 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey unless u like him dont move in with him. but trust me it isnt odd for a guy and a girl to go to movies and still be friends.
2006-12-26 15:59:09 · answer #9 · answered by dallas_cowboys231 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not odd at all; it's great to have friends of both genders.
2006-12-26 15:57:10 · answer #10 · answered by K G 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋