was told that he's been seeing high school girls. When i confronted him about it of course he denied it but this has been said before and he did the same thing. I really care alot bout him but at the same time my moma didn't raise a fool so what should i do? We have been dating each other off and on for about 8yrs. This girl who just turned 18 this year is going around telling everyone that he is her boyfriend. Now i'm a grown woman so how should i handle this because i'm not married to him. I thought my life was drama free until this disturbing incident.
2006-12-26 15:31:58 · 4 answers · asked by 2sweet4u 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think that you should not put so much stress into it. You sound like youre in deep...so maybe u cant just let it go. I suggest u do whatever u can to help him. u said u not a fool so u should be able to see through this. As long as they are 18, and he is not dating them while dating u, then the only problem is his disposition and his lack of honesty. If that doesn't sit well with u, and it wouldnt with me, then maybe u need to re-evaluate the bigger picture. y is he lying to you of all people? no ones life is drama free. but u can resolve this by just asking yourself some questions about your own judgement. Is his lifestyle ok with u? are you content with him not trusting you enough to tell the truth? are u wiling to help him overcome his own issues to make your life with him better? or are u going to trust his word that its not even true? its up 2 u. hope i helped.
2006-12-26 15:44:11 · answer #1 · answered by tweetyluva_17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ew, creepy. If he acknowledges doing this in the least bit, kiss his immature behind goodbye. 8 years is a long time and getting out would be hard but floating around in De Nile forever ain't so hot either. Sounds like something he has a thing for and isn't going to change. Ewww!
2006-12-26 23:37:06 · answer #2 · answered by dolphin_chaysr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop that pedophile because nothing you say can change his behavior it is a mind thing it is a sick mind thing. Be with someone who is mature and not sick. MOVE ON
2006-12-26 23:44:03 · answer #3 · answered by starsmoonis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and remain drama free.
2006-12-26 23:35:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋