Should my friend be mad at me?

Question

Ok, I was on my laptop talking to her
Friend:brb
me:k
friend:ok i'm back
me: ok
friend: be right back
friend:again
me:ok
friend: hey we have to go to the hospital again for jacob. srry
me: it's ok srry about jacob.
me:wut's wrong with him?
friend: his head is swellng again
me:oh
friend: we have to wait on my daddy so i can talk until he gets here.
2 hours went by and i called her and she said she would call me when she got home so we could talk again.
she called me when she got home,but i was downloading songs for my ipod and i said i would be on in a sec.
that sec turned into 1 hour and i i.m ed her but no one answered so i called her. i said i was on now and she said she was watching a movie. i asked her what time it would be over and she said she ddn't know. i asked what movie it was she said "Meet the Fockers" then we got off the phone. then i did something really stupid and instat messaged her and said:if-a-movie-is-more-imprtant-thatn-our-friendship-its-over

I said: if a movie is more important than our friendship, we shouldnt have one
should my friend be mad at me?

Hey, The First Dragon, I was downloadibg before she called and she could have stopped the movie anytime she wanted!!!
I couldn't stop the download at all or i would have no songs on my ipod.

ummm.... This is embarassing but i have a problem about saying stuff I don't mean

Answer 1

This is just silly!! Your friend will get over it!!

Answer 2

She does have a right to be mad. You don't control her life. She was watching a movie, that is what she wanted to be doing at the time and you, as a friend should understand that.
It is interesting that you often say things you don't mean, which I translate into that you say things without thinking. Last night I politely answered a question you asked wherein you actually yelled in your question that no one better give you stupid answers or you would report them. I answered your question and also told you to be a bit nicer when asking. There was nothing wrong with that, and you can't control how other people perceive you yet that is exactly what you did. So my advice is to EASE UP and try not to be so controlling. This is a lesson you should learn early in life. You can't control the world you can only control yourself.
Call your friend and tell her you were out of line. Explain that you were tired and you were wrong and you really value her as a friend. Hopefully all will be forgiven. Good Luck.

Answer 3

if that was me i would be more suprised and confused and probably a little upset. its not her fault that she doesnt know what time the movie will finish. like when jacob had to go the hospital because of his head. she couldnt control that. you have all the time in the world to talk to her. to end a friendship because she was watching a movie that was really STUPID ON SO MANY LEVELS.!!. you should really be sorry that you said that. i feel that way sometimes too but its a movie. its not like when the movie is finished she isnt gonna speak to you. she's gonna come back when the movie is done. your right that was really stupid. im sorry but that was the wrong move. you need to say your sorry and tell her that you werent thinking when you wrote that and that you didnt mean it. that you were just upset at the moment and anything would flown out your mouth at that time.

Answer 4

I think you were being a little bit irrational when you said those things. She just had a rough day and it's not wrong for her to spend some time with herself, no? I would be a bit annoyed if my friend referred a second as an hour, and yet over react in the end.

Answer 5

The ipod was more important than your friendship, right? So why not the movie?
Apologize and don't sweat the small stuff.

Answer 6

yes she should.you just told her you didn't want to be her friend because she was busy but she didn't do that when you were busy. plus you did it over the internet.

Answer 7

You instant messaged her and said what?