i dont understand i like this girl...lets just call her taylor.......i finally get up enough courage to ask her out and she says yes.....so about a week passes by...im at her house laying down in the back yard next to her just looking up at the stars.....and i felt like at that one moment i could tell her anything i couldnt tell anyone else, but we just looked up at the stars talking about anything that came to our minds,i told her i loved her and she said " i love you too'' and it was the best night of my life....then in the next day (around 12:00) then she tells me that we shouldnt go out anymore......WTF???? someone plz help
2006-12-26 15:22:47 · 11 answers · asked by dylan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
sounds weird
maybe after she thought about it she realized things were moving too fast, especially with the whole "i love you" stuff. its great at the moment, but girls tend to overanalyze stuff and maybe when she did it freaked her out.
2006-12-26 15:25:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be scared and wants to back off. her mom or dad may have said this is too much too fast. the word "love" carries alot and a simple comment can mean different things. You should definitely talk and discuss that your comments were genuine but you're probably too young for "love" to mean marriage kids till death do you part no other BF or GF and everything else. Ah youth! If only I cold do it all over again. Would I even ever use that word? I wonder ... practice saying this: "I like you a lot and I feel I can tell you anything and I'm so glad we are such good friends. I'm looking forward to getting to know you better"
2006-12-26 23:29:52 · answer #2 · answered by sparetom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand why she did that you told her that you loved her and she did not want to be rude and say well i don't love you, so just said i love back. She might was not ready to be in that kind of relationship. she might liked you or whatever but she might felt like the relationship was going to fast. just call her and talk about it
2006-12-26 23:28:46 · answer #3 · answered by krazykia1p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to sit down and talk to her. she very well may be confused with her own emotions as well as yours. she might feel as if a week is too short of a time to seriously fall in love with a person. also, she might be afraid of the vulnerability that it might make her experience. love is a crazy thing, and if she/you really are in love, she/you might do things that she/you may end up regretting. lol i hope this helps..just remember, communication is key!
2006-12-26 23:27:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shldnt have told her u loved her so quickly in ur relationship u ve only known each other for a week slow the hell down
she might find it creepy if u tell her u love her so quick
how young are u and her huh?
slow down hun u got time
in the mean time tell her u kno u went alittle fast and ur willin to slow down
2006-12-26 23:27:11 · answer #5 · answered by leandrasmiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She got caught up in the moment and panicked when she thought about it. I would talk to her and if she doesn't explain herself, then she's not worth it, I she has a good answer, then she probably did what i said.
2006-12-26 23:30:09 · answer #6 · answered by Dancing S. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably said she loved you in the spurr of the moment, she didnt kno what else to say. talk to her about it and start over if she's willing
2006-12-26 23:37:35 · answer #7 · answered by wize1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she need sometime.just let her a few moment.then,ask her why she said like that if she loves you too.
2006-12-26 23:30:50 · answer #8 · answered by swe3tsiLence~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what happened and then listen to her answer. You may have scared her.
Just listen.
2006-12-26 23:26:15 · answer #9 · answered by anirbas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never say "I love you" unless you REALLY mean it.
2006-12-27 00:14:02 · answer #10 · answered by Summer Breeze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋