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My friend Tamara says her Mom will not let her hang out with me anymore. They are very religious and her mom thinks I am a bad influence, disrespectful and that I dress "suggestively". I stayed with them for 6 weeks here in Texas earlier this Fall when my Dad was working in the Middle East on business. Her

2006-12-26 15:01:36 · 5 answers · asked by Lori 5 in Family & Relationships Friends

Heather has been reported as deserved.

2006-12-26 15:40:48 · update #1

That Joe guy was also reported, as richly deserved.

2006-12-26 15:50:34 · update #2

I meant JonDoe, whatever

2006-12-26 15:51:14 · update #3

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You and her mom are both wrong.

You need to shape up your act and stop convincing yourself that you are the victim. Take some responsibility and say, "Yeah, I can be disrespectful. I can be bad. I need to work on that." Perhaps dress a little more conservatively when you are around her.

However, her mom sounds insane. Continue to hang out with your friend at school, but there isn't much you can do outside of school. If you keep persisting in trying to talk to your friend or her mom outside of school, you are only going to make her angrier.

Really, leave her alone and drop it. You can be friends at school, but if you persist in trying to get her to be able to hang out with you after school, you are going to cause HUGE problems.

2006-12-26 16:27:49 · answer #1 · answered by * 4 · 3 0

Your mom isn't trying to be mean, she's just trying to protect you. There is more violence against teens today than there probably was when she was your age. Try inviting your friends over so your mom can get to know them. Try asking her to let you go to the mall in the afternoon for a couple of hours on the weekend. Take your cell phone with you and call your mom while you're at the mall and let her know everything is ok. I think, eventually, she will let you go more often as long as she can trust you and your friends and as long as you can contact her if the need arises

2016-05-23 09:30:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

It's no use telling Tamara's mom that "it's no big deal" when you called the police on her for no good reason. She will never trust you again.
Learn from this experience and do not abuse people in the future.

2006-12-26 15:36:23 · answer #3 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 4 0

Maybe you should shape your life up and then her mom wouldn't have a problem with you. Do you think your a bad influence? i do understand what your going through. I had the same prob with a guy i wanted to date but according to my parents he wasn't a good influence. Maybe talk to the mom and see if you can reason wit her

2006-12-26 15:06:31 · answer #4 · answered by Alila 4 · 3 0

YOU'RE A TROUBLE MAKER, STAY AWAY FROM HER.

2006-12-26 15:04:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3 1

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