2006-12-26 14:55:07 · 39 answers · asked by vsuntones 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Lock the door and dont let him in...
2006-12-26 14:56:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
You deserve the best that life has to offer and that's not it. You don't need anyone beating on you, you're worth more than that. Hang in there things will get better. For your own safety, I would keep him away. You are unique of all God's creations, nothing can replace you. You are more than what you give yourself credit my dear. Please take care of you. If no one around you feels that way, then feel that way for yourself. That is truly how others honor and respect you in that order. I hope you realize you are special and you should be treated that way as well. I'm a nurse and a Christian and I'll be praying for you. I have a movie I would like you to watch and may you be blessed and cared for as you should be. I have been there once. CALL 911 ON HIM AND THEY WILL PICK HIM UP
2006-12-26 15:05:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'll ASSUME that he is not living with you.
1. Go get a restraining order (Though IMO a piece of paper won't stop him from attacking you again--it will help you legally, just google "Tracy Thurman")
2. Go take self defense classes.
3. Get yourself familiar with a handgun and get a license to carry a concealed weapon.
If he does live with you:
1. Move out yesterday. Find a women's shelter to help you.
2. Follow 1-3 above.
Press charges each time. Hit him back.
A well aimed bullet to the head.
2006-12-26 15:07:46 · answer #3 · answered by Terri 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go to your local hardware or feedstore. There they sell a battery opperated cow prod.If he comes near you press it into him and shock the living daylights out of him. While he's down do it again then call the police and press charges. The next day get an order of protect from the bum and file for a divorse. Get a legal aid lawyer. Good luck to you.
2006-12-26 15:10:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
It is called having him arrested, don't drop the charges, let him sit in jail, get a restraining order against him and use it if he comes around again and have him arrested for breaking it. Let him sit in jail some more.. Don't forgive him and take him back. If you do, then you deserve to be beaten. Only you can stop him from doing this.
2006-12-26 15:23:44 · answer #5 · answered by Sally B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Clearly, you need to get away from this man. Domestic violence ultimately maims or kills a disturbing number of women in this otherwise "civilized" country of ours.
Consider getting in touch with a women's shelter or domestic violence support organization in your area. Go back to the police too, but realize that overall the police have a much better record at solving rather than preventing murders in most jurisdictions. Organizations that have experience in dealing with incorrigible abusers will be able to help you navigate the resources in your area to get you through this.
2006-12-26 15:01:47 · answer #6 · answered by David G 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
get a restraining order! call the police EVERY time he breaks it. press charges Every Time! And although I don't condone violence, I would take self defense classes and also register for a concealed weapons permit and then carry a weapon. you have the right to protect yourself and if I understand your question correctly, Its not likely to stop unless you change the circumstances.
2006-12-26 15:29:44 · answer #7 · answered by angel1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you are not living with him, if so, move out. Get an order of protection / restraining order on him. When that is done, if he comes back, call the police and have him arrested.
2006-12-26 16:21:44 · answer #8 · answered by Trese 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You tell him theres a frying pan with his name on it, and at some point he will have to go to sleep. I would say go press charges on him AGAIN, at your local police station as you are heading out of town to get away from this loser. I would like to think this is JUST a ramdom question and that some a**hole is beating on you, if this is the case please GET HELP....
2006-12-26 15:02:51 · answer #9 · answered by Porcelain Doll 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Read
"the Burning Bed'...or just watch some lifetime movies. Lot's of good suggestions there.
2006-12-26 15:51:46 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You find a place where he cant get to you. Family/friends should be able to help you. If not go to a shelter for battered women, they can help you. Penelope House is located in Alabama, look for a similar place in your area
2006-12-26 15:13:12 · answer #11 · answered by sharinsbobby 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋