am in a long distance relationship with this guy, we talk ever night ever since the relationship started. It's been three months and i feel so much for him until i tell him i love him, the beginning stage. I invited him over at my houses for Christmas and i told me i going Jamica fine. I won't lie am lonely very loney need a man to hug me sometimes, yes he called me since he went down. But my friends think i should fine someone closer. What i should do
2006-12-26 14:38:40 · 8 answers · asked by darkangel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
dear dark angel, i cant say that i feel your pain but i do understand the predicament. u feel as though u have all these feelings to express and the outlet that you wish to express it on is not around or unavailable and it makes u frustrated. but all i can offer to you is this...................if he is worth u having a long distance relationship then i think he is worth you giving a chance on. don't worry about him not coming home by u.........there are 365 days in a year and thats more than enough time for him to come to ur house and meet your family. to end it off i just say that love may not make the world go round but it makes it worth the ride u must really find out if staying with this guy would make your ride better or worst
2006-12-26 14:51:14 · answer #1 · answered by gentle counsel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simply find something not someone to do. Love is far more than hugs. If you love him the way you say you do, then patience has to come into play. You also need to find a way to have a heart to heart conversation with him to see if he is as serious as you are. What ever you do your friends should never make decisions for you. Follow your own judgement.
2006-12-26 22:50:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your best bet is to find someone closer. you said you needed someone to hug you? that's kind of hard to do when he's not there. besides, relationships are hard enough when you can be together, when you are apart its almost impossible to actually build a firm relationship. Lot's of lonely guys out there go find you one. he's going to find it hard to resist all those women in Jamaica too, so that's something else to think about.
2006-12-26 22:45:47 · answer #3 · answered by angel1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell him how you feel girl. cause you head over heels in love with him. ask him how he feels about you and work from there. some long distance relationships work out and some don't. who cares what your friends think just go with your heart.
2006-12-26 22:52:13 · answer #4 · answered by ken's princess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have had long distance relationships before and it is hard when you want to be with that person. Cyber just doesn't do it for me. I am not sure how long it can last unless you can see each other.
2006-12-26 22:45:17 · answer #5 · answered by Dan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like to me you didn't get too many hugs when you were a little girl. Find a way to make yourself happy and not depend on a man to hug you in order to be happy.
2006-12-26 22:43:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Seek God, and you shall find him......he is love....and cares about what you are going through...he can fill your void.....God bless ya
2006-12-26 22:44:55 · answer #7 · answered by Bert 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love has no distance, listen to your heart, not your friends
2006-12-26 22:41:54 · answer #8 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋