My mom is very religious(sp). She hates homosexuals. But the problem is i fell in love with one of my great friends.We are both girls. How am i going to inform my mom that i'm a homosexual? I'm afraid she'll kick me out of the house and family and i will only have my girlfriend as family. She's scared me before by saying being gay is a sin and you go to hell. What should i do?
2006-12-26 14:37:43 · 6 answers · asked by KK O 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Until your old enough to live alone and take care of yourself, please don't tell her! Put yourself first, physically. You have her as an emotional back-up support system, so wait for your time to come! : ) Then, when YOU are ready, tell her!
2006-12-26 14:51:44 · answer #1 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that telling her now may not be the best thing to do unless you feel you are ready and you must. The most imortant thing here is you being ready to tell her. You don't have to tell her now or years from now. I don't plan on telling my mom that i'm bisexual until college. It doesn't sound to me like you're ready. And I really do know what you're talking about because I fell in love with my best friend and now we are completely in love! I couldn't be happier with her. But my mom doesn't know. I hope this helped.
2006-12-26 23:07:06 · answer #2 · answered by MCRlover12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont tell her, She doesn't need to know. I would recommend you telling an close friend about this situation or better yet, any of your relatives with an open mind. In case she kicks you out you'll have some place under your head.
2006-12-26 22:42:16 · answer #3 · answered by bandgeekmafia13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch the show called South Of Nowhere!!!! seriously....it's basically about what you're talking about....and I know the fear!....but let me ask you this....would you tell her you got a b/f? if so...then nvm....but if not....then same applies. And in my option, what kind of God wouldn't let you love who you want to love?...I mean....you can go and get sperm donated to you, and have a baby....so it's not like the population is going to DIE OUT...coz you love your friend!.....But i know the fear.....IM me baby, I'm gonna see you through this!!!!
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2006-12-26 22:57:21 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♣♠Dragon Dust♠♣♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should follow your heart. Tell your mum, and if she trully is a Christian then she shouldnt shun you because your gay.
2006-12-26 22:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by trysssa999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't believe her. God made you gay, so being gay and fufilling god's wish is anything but a sin.
If that's what you believe that is...
2006-12-26 22:58:08 · answer #6 · answered by Ghost Wolf 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋