He never wants sex,I have to complain to get it once or twice a month,(I know he doesn't cheat,we're always together),he won't go down on me,he will only do it 2 positions,says all women want is d---.He is a neat freak and when I talk about being together in the shower,he says only women that get around do things like that.He doesn't want children.He doesn't care if I have nice clothes or not.Seriously please,could he be gay or is he just selfish?I am at a loss and sick of trying.
2006-12-26 14:35:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It's possible but some people aren't that big on sex. Are there any clues that he may be attracted to other men? You really need to seriously discuss your concerns with him and come out and ask him. Sometimes gay men have relationships with women because they're afraid to come out and are afraid of what their families and other people would think.
2006-12-26 15:07:26 · answer #1 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's possible, but not probable.
He doesn't sound selfish but rather emotionally abused as a child. Yes, he has an extremely unhealthy attitude towards sex and might even need some counceling. He sounds as if he may have had an overbearing mother as a child or one who was overtly sexual infront of him.
I'd be really concerned about how he views women as he does.
You might be dating the next Zodiac killer or worse.
Strongly suggest he get some counceling and then
RUN LIKE HELL!
2006-12-27 00:08:03 · answer #2 · answered by DEATH 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that the two of you sit down and have a long conversation. Don't start yelling or whatever just talk. Listen to him and also express your feeling and how you feel the way the relationship is and where its headed. Hopefully he will open to you and let you know the truth behing all of it. Good luck.
2006-12-26 22:57:43 · answer #3 · answered by Alexx19 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has a very unhealthy attitude towards sex, but this does not make him gay.
However, a relationship is a give and take, and if you can't find some compromise, then he may not be the one for you. Everyone has different needs, and deserves a partner who can fulfill those.
2006-12-26 22:39:49 · answer #4 · answered by Michael 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"only women who get around do that?" who uses language like that? Was he raised very religious? It just sounds selfish to me, not gay. Lose the loser! You can do better!
2006-12-26 23:12:29 · answer #5 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to catch him looking at a guy or something to make sure he is gay... otherwise you cannot jump to conclusions.. try to trap him... put him in a situation that would only be awkward to a gay man... or go the complete opposite of the spectrum and put him in a situation that would only be comfortable for a ay guy...
2006-12-26 23:03:58 · answer #6 · answered by Heather v 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He might be gay; however, he's more likely to be a asexuality person (a person who doesn't have any sexual desires at all, in other words, a person who doesn't want sex and never think about having sex).
2006-12-26 23:23:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he said that all women want is d--- then he is probably a d---. he probably isnt gay but he does sound like hes got issues you could do better.
2006-12-26 22:46:48 · answer #8 · answered by joe s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why stay with him when there's plenty of fish in the sea! I'll bet he will change his attitude when he see's you screwin another guy or girl ; ).
2006-12-26 22:40:36 · answer #9 · answered by bandgeekmafia13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very possibly. I married this guy who turned out to be gay.
2006-12-26 23:16:34 · answer #10 · answered by 22sa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋