YUP IM GOING TO BE A MOMMY COOL I GUESS 5 MONTHS ALREADY
2006-12-26 14:24:59 · 51 answers · asked by JESSICA R 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Umm....13 is way too young to be pregnant....yet alone having sex and even dating! Does the father know? Tell him. And your family? Choose a good moment to tell them. DO THIS NOW. Oh yeah, and go to the doctor.
2006-12-26 14:31:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
I got pregnant when I was 15. Being a teenager mother is not always cool (in fact, very uncool). It's a whole lot to handle and a lot to get used to. The best thing I can tell you is to ignore all the mean comments you will get and seek help from those who will understand. I got a lot of mean looks in public and at school when I was pregnant and when I had my baby. I learned to block all of that out and seek those who would accept me and understand me. People make mistakes. Young girls make mistakes. When I was 13 I thought I was pregnant. It happens. It happens more now then ever before. Don't let anyone bring you down and tell you that you are not able to be a mother at age 13. You can. Don't let anyone make you feel like you must give your baby away or keep it. YOU and your child will have to live with the decision forever. Do what you believe is best for you two. And most importantly educate yourself. Be prepared. People will tell you that you know nothing about children or birth or discipline or education or diapers, read about these things and make decisions ahead of time. This way all the people who will call you ignorant will be proved wrong. Thirteen is young to be a mother- but not too young. Good luck to you and your child and God bless the both of you.
2006-12-26 16:04:13 · answer #2 · answered by JustAmy 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
First question, why'd ya have sex. Your thirteen, barely even know the meaning of Puberty. Don't say that it makes you feel like a grown up, because when people see a pregnant thriteen year old walking down the street, they think anything but. It's nothing cool for you, because your in the seventh grade, having a baby and are going to have to keep going to school to get an education while taking care of the baby. If you drop out your too young to get a job and your parents have the obligation to not support you and the father and you are too young to even know what love is.
2006-12-29 11:49:30 · answer #3 · answered by Allyson B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be having sex at 13. Your way to young. I am young and I am probably going to wait till I am married or at least engaged to the person I want to be the father of my child and Am ready to be a mom and can give my baby every thing he or she needs. You should give the baby up for adoption so it can have a chance for a better life that a 13 yearold could give it. If you keep the baby you would probably become another one of those Welfare Mommies with their Welfare Baby. Being on Welfare is not a good thing. You should wait till you are mature enough. Let me guess how old the baby's daddy is. 14,15,16,17,18,19, or even 20. Your pretty dumb if you keep the baby. Have fun in the Delivery room. My cousin was 17 when she had her baby and wasn't that a sight because it was very painfull for her because she wasn't mature and still isn't mature enough to take care of her 3 month old. And now her sister who she lives with takes care of the baby because my cousin is too lazy and doesn't want to take care of her. And after she was born my cousin and her Boyfriend broke up and they were almost 3 years apart. STUPID STUPID STUPID STUPID STUPID STUPID STUPID PEOPLE.
YOUR A LITTLE GIRL
2006-12-27 03:39:34 · answer #4 · answered by HOTTIE 101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are young your body mint die while giving.Second what is so COOL about being a MOMMY?You and only you will take care of the baby . That means baby changing,buying clothes(also everything wil come out of your expense[your money])don`t get me started on food too. Why did you do it too(you are so young and nasty.)Being a mom is for when you already lived your youth.But now it will go`s all to the baby.I`m glad I did not get pregent.Good luck if you live past giving birth.
2006-12-26 16:43:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im adopted,my birth mother was 15 when she got preg. You are 13 and preg. and all you can say is cool?You need to put the baby up for adoption,so it can have a stable fam. life.Your 13! If you seemed a little more concerned I would offer you more advice,but you don't seem to care.You really should concider adoption.I have a wonderful fam. and know my life has turned out better because my birth mother made a wise and loving decision.
2006-12-29 06:41:55 · answer #6 · answered by jill@doodle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok where are your parents? and why are you even having sex at 13? I swear this is like the 10th 13 year old on answers this week thats pregnant? are you kids insane? What happened to wanting to be a kid and enjoying your youth? I bet at 13 you dont even know what or how to experience an orgasm so whats the purpose of having sex? Then on top of that getting pregnant? Sweetie your nor old enough to drive or work so how will you take care of this child? I hope not dump it on your parents because that baby is your responsibility not theirs. You kids need to think before you have sex before your even old enough to be in high school at least if you were in highschool you can work
2006-12-28 07:18:03 · answer #7 · answered by onehotmama 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where is the father? How will you support the baby? Who will care for it when you're at school and after school? Will you find a job? Not so easy being a teen parent. Think about your decision twice. This could really affect your life and you get to only experience your teen years once.
2006-12-26 16:32:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you seem to be very proud of yourself. I hope that you can turn your life around, learn from the experience and educate yourself on how to be a good parent. Get an education so you can support your child. And be a good example for this child. I can't help but wonder if your going to think it's so cool in 6 months!
2006-12-26 14:54:50 · answer #9 · answered by Wicked Good 6 · 7⤊ 0⤋
why your a little to young to be having sex, and how are you going to support that baby you cant get a job until you are 16 thats 3 years awayand not only that your only allowed to get so many hours a week at that age , and if you drop out of school thats going to be the worse thing you will do especially since you are pregnant cause then you will never be able to get a good enough job to support that baby
2006-12-26 14:55:50 · answer #10 · answered by <3 mykiddos,mylife <3 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋