Women...When a guy introduces himself, what is it you notice that grabs or holds your attention to him?

Question

What kind of quick judgements would you make? What would he have to do to not be your type?

Answer 1

As far as first impressions go: His eyes, and the timbre and tone in his voice. If I don't like either one or both, it's a polite bye-bye.
I also use my instincts.

Answer 2

Eyes (how does he look at me? Respectfully? Like I'm a ho?)
Shoulders (don't ask me why)
handshake (is it firm?)
HIS SCENT -- whatever makes his unique as long as he's not dirty, of course.

To not be my type:
Guys who end up not being my type are the guys who make assumptions. The guy who assumes you'll spend the night with him. The guy who buys a drink without asking what drink you prefer. Everybody has hopes, right? But the ones that make it abundantly clear they are scheming? Well, it's proof they are not into me at all. The biggest turn off ever: Flirt with another chick when you're with me. I'm not talking about being nice and friendly and polite to other chicks, I'm talking full-on stare at their parts, smile too long, and basically forget I'm there for that moment. Bye Bye.

And I'm not saying it's wrong to have a one-nighter, either. I'm just saying, let me decide if it will happen. Coz it's ultimately my choice. The more pressure you use, the less likely you are to get lucky. Take the pressure-free route and you'll get far luckier. You never really know. That girl you're you're trying to scheme might really be trying to scheme you.

Answer 3

Personality

Answer 4

When a man introduces himself to me I watch and notice several things. I first notice his eyes and his mouth when he greats me to see that he is sincere. Then I notice his handshake. A firm but gentle handshake is what I find good in a man. I notice the way a man speaks to me and how he watches me when I speak to him. I make a note to watch where his eyes go on me so know exactly what he is looking at. And it always helps if the guy is wearing some nice cologne that doesn't offend.

Answer 5

Smile, teeth, and eye contact during introduction. Those would be the things i would notice upon introduction. Intelligent conversation would hold my attention.
If he were unkept, unclean, bad breath then he would definitely would not be my type. Or rude and vulgar language is also not a good sign. God bless****

Answer 6

I usually notice his eyes and his smile. I like a man that looks me straight in the eye and has a nice smile. I then notice his grooming and whether he is clean and neat. This is strictly my opinion but I know a lot of my friends share this opinion as well.

Answer 7

Well the biggest thing i notice the way they carry themself. Its all in the way they introduce themselves and yeah clothes and stuff like that comes to play to when it comes to first impressions.

Some guys are just naturally not my type and some are, but one thing they can do to automatically not be my type is to act ignorant and stupid.

Answer 8

How he looks and carries himself his tone in his voice. His scent is the one thing that grabs and holds me though. Get to close, be touchy feely. Want eye contact, not be assertive and "hog" the conversation. Wandering eyes whether on me or to other girls. Be foreful and not natural.

Answer 9

First, his eyes. Second, the way he talks, and last, the way he presents himself. If he walks up standing up straight and looking like he is sure of himself, that is a big perk. Also, you can tell immediatly if a man is honest by his eyes.

Answer 10

as a guy and reading most of the answers given by the ladies, i find that alot talk of the eyes, the smile and the handshake. it s amazing to me that so many would assume so much from so little contact and yet do not want a man to 'be judgmental' upon their initial contact of them.
good luck guys!