Libra & Scorpio?

Question

her birthday is October 6 and min is November 6 are we a good match?

Answer 1

Not at all. Trust me on this. I'm a Scorpio (Nov. 11) and I was engaged to a Libra (Oct. 16).

First of all, Both signs are controlling. Libra fakes weakness and flatters their partner constantly. They use emotional manipulation to control them and get their way. Scorpio however, is very stubborn and wants to be in control as well. We're also sensitive though, and our emotions are our weak point. Libra is the one sign that is perfect at disarming a Scorpio and vice versa. It's a very intense attraction at first but don't let it blind you.

Libra is very indecisive and they change like the weather. We're a fixed sign. This will drive you mad. Believe me, You'll think you know them and they'll completely change themselves overnight, and they'll wait an eternity before they approach any conflict. This causes them to be compulsive liars. They want everyone happy all the time and they'll say whatever they need to in order to make it that way. This doesn't mean they have bad intentions but they fear conflict with a passion. And Scorpio hates being betrayed or lied to.

Libras also have a very high opinion of themselves. They think they're perfect and can't handle the slightest criticism. This gives them a very short temper. And Scorpio tends to be bluntly honest, this will lead to some very heated arguments.

They're masters of charm and falseness. They'll make you feel like the best person in the world, flattering you and promising you everything. However, they do this with everyone and once you find out their words lose their meaning. Libras contradict themselves constantly with their promises and words. They have a hard time keeping friends. You won't appreciate this falseness.

In the end it's just a horrible match at every angle. The Libra will be frustrated with your moods & emotional "drama" as they call it. And the Scorpio (If he sticks around) will be miserable and have his spirit broken from the emotional manipulation. We're far more sensitive than we let on and Libra will know that and use it against you whether they realize it or not. It's in their nature. They need another air sign, one that's emotionally detached.

It's a disaster waiting to happen. You might want to get a natal chart done for both of you to see if you have good compatibility elsewhere, (There are several signs besides your Sun Sign). (I'll post a link for free ones below). Of course if you're both willing to work at it then it could great. Don't let astrology guide your decisions. Just know you're in for a relationship that will require a lot of compromise and work. Good luck and I hope I helped.

http://www.astro.com

Answer 2

i'm a libra, my hubby is a scorpio. We have been together for 14 years, with 2 kids. Good luck

Answer 3

Your not astrologically a perfect match.. but your not a bad match either... you're sort of in the middle. But I don't think you should base your relationship just on the stars. haha. Me and my bf have been together for 3 years (and still hopelessly in love) and we are astrologically opposite. haha.

Answer 4

not a good match at all.

Answer 5

The intense Scorpio avowal of love and flattery will undoubtedly be exceedingly attractive to the Libra native in the beginning of this relationship...and even the jealous possessiveness of Scorpio will initially be regarded by Libra as romantic...but it will not be long before the Libra partner starts to feel trapped and confined. Unfortunately, at the first indications of this, the Scorpio individual will only cling that much tighter, possibly resulting in the Libra native being driven into an affair with someone who does not make him or her feel restricted in any way. Scorpio natives are not of a forgiving nature and any infidelity will never be forgotten by this Sign. Thus, if the Scorpio individual does happen to take the erring Libra back after he or she has strayed, it will only be to get revenge for the unfaithful act. Here, it is unlikely that Libra will find it easy to stand up to the forcefulness of the Scorpio partner and the Libra sense of justice is sure to be outraged by such behavior. In order to achieve any form of peace and harmony, it will be necessary for the Libra partner to be more considerate of Scorpio's feelings and recognize the deep love that Scorpio may have for him or her. On the other hand, the Scorpio partner must try to keep an open mind and not be so restrictive in his or her attitudes toward Libra. In addition, the Scorpio mate will have to handle all the couple's finances since Libra sees little sense in budgets and refuses to waste time in worrying over paying the bills. While both individuals here are endowed with a healthy appetite in the romantic arena, Scorpio tends to be all passion and somewhat animalistic in the approach to satisfaction. Alternatively, Libra requires mental stimulation and much excitement if one partner is to satisfy for any length of time. The needs of Libra natives are triggered by the frame of mind and it will be the responsibility of the Scorpio partner to provide this stimulus in the form of books, films, etc., and to use it accordingly. Perhaps the best description of the Libra/Scorpio relationship would fall into the love/hate category.

The Libra/Scorpio match can be a very emotionally connected and mutually satisfying union. Although Scorpio is a brooder who can become lost in the confusing welter of his or her emotions, the Libra proclivity for balance and harmony can help to keep Scorpio on an even keel. In return, Scorpio is capable of providing Libra with his or her characteristic powers of focus...a trait that natives of Libra customarily lack. This pair are compatible courtesy of their similar needs in a love relationship. Libra is concerned with partnership and is happiest when in a well-balanced and intimate union. Scorpio thrives on emotional and physical intimacy with a mate. Thus, the combination here can make for a very loyal, close and satisfying partnership. These two would be well advised to undertake some type of project together aside from their romance and there is great potential here to get things accomplished. They combine the power of emotion with the power of intellect...an extremely formidable pairing. Natives of Scorpio tend to be more patient, but also more controlling, than those of Libra. Still, despite any differences, both partners love to take risks and chances. In short, this will never be a boring relationship. Subjects of both Signs tend to be real charmers...they know how to woo and seduce, and take great pleasure in doing so. However, the varying styles...Scorpio being intense and secretive while Libra is upfront and open...sometimes result in each having trouble understanding the other. Hence, there needs to be close attention to communication from both sides.

Libra is ruled by the planet Venus and Scorpio is ruled by the planet Pluto, indicative of power, with a secondary influence courtesy of Mars (the planet that ruled Scorpio prior to the discovery of Pluto). Libra's love of beauty and romance balances the strife that can arise in Scorpio's life due to the deep and often tangled emotions associated with that Sign. But at least Mars, representative of passion, promises an active and exciting relationship. Neither partner here is fond of arguments. Scorpio tends to avoid conflict in favor of secret revenge and Libra abhors confrontation, doing anything possible to avoid it...which includes backing down and seeking a truce. Libra is governed by the element of Air while Scorpio is governed by the element of Water. The best decisions are usually made by combining the intellect and the emotions...using both the head and the heart. Thus, this couple can meet almost any challenge and understand virtually any puzzle. Of course, this is all contingent upon the two Signs working together and not against one another. Natives of Scorpio are master strategists and can help those ruled by Libra to focus their occasionally scattered or indecisive minds. However, at times, Scorpio's over-emotionalism can drag down and dishearten the Libra partner...and Libra can sometimes make the Scorpio partner feel flustered and uncomfortably stirred-up. It will be during times such as these that the natural diplomacy of Libra will come in most handy. Libra is Cardinal in quality and Scorpio is Fixed. Consequently, Libra is always thinking of something new to try...a new restaurant or art gallery to visit, for example, or a new location for a trip. However, it will be the Scorpio mate who possesses the determination to follow through on these ideas. Together, this couple has the capability of being the most loyal and devoted of partners, as these qualities are quite important to both. Perhaps the best aspect of a Libra/Scorpio match is the power they find in unity. These two can accomplish much, whether they come together for a cause in the business arena or romantic sphere. Here, both partners are winners and neither is willing to give up without a fight. Thus, this is a relationship that takes care of business.

In essence, this is a good combination. There is much sympathetic magnetism between an individual governed by Libra and one ruled by Scorpio. There is little doubt that Scorpio will be the dominant partner, but the beauty and sense of fair play provided by Libra will certainly appeal to Scorpio's excellent judgment. Libra is sentimental and susceptible as a mate, which also serves to appeal to the Scorpio urges of dominance and possession. However, in order to achieve longevity, it will be vital for the Libra partner to avoid hurting the pride of the Scorpio native.

Answer 6

Only if she has a lot of patience.

Answer 7

No You need Pisces or Cancer..