My friend was kind of chubby when she was younger, but now that she's gotten into shape and whatnot, a lot of guys have been attracted to her. However, she's scared to let any of the guys (or most of her friends) see how she looked like when she was younger.
Do you think if someone were to see her younger pictures that their attraction for her would lessen? Should that be the case, or is it normal?
2006-12-26 14:11:12 · 8 answers · asked by Θ Chez Θ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is completely normal. She's obviously insecure about her weight when she was younger and doesn't want people to judge her for her past. Obsesity is judged very harshly and it's not necessary for anyone to know her past because it's the past. She's shed it for a reason. She's happy now and what's most important is who she's become.
2006-12-26 14:16:55 · answer #1 · answered by Bonita Applebaum 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's great that she improved her looks physically, but her and friends sound pretty superficial. Even if she was still chubby that shouldn't affect their friendship. Hope she gets over it and realizes she is more than her looks.
2006-12-26 22:18:22 · answer #2 · answered by Candi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No i don't think so, if my husband was fat when he was younger i'd still love him as much as i did when i first met him, after seeing a picture. the past is the past if they are really into her then no, the past doesn't matter. let it go...
2006-12-26 22:16:08 · answer #3 · answered by c_aguilar 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The past would not matter to me and I think no one would care
2006-12-26 22:15:58 · answer #4 · answered by PhillyDude 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way, that is badass, especially since I see so many people every day who whine and ***** about losing weight and do nothing.
2006-12-26 22:15:47 · answer #5 · answered by John C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it would probably increase the feelings to know she is hardworking and can put effort into things she wants it shows determination I wish you guys the best of luck
2006-12-26 22:14:07 · answer #6 · answered by ziri 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It should not matter at all.....its how she feels about herself now that matters.
2006-12-26 22:14:58 · answer #7 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
probably not. that's like comparing fake and real breasts. most guys won't care if they get to hold them.
2006-12-26 22:20:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋