Ok call me desperate but I need suggestions lol(even though I don't act on desperation)
Well I am pretty in my own way, I may not be a model but I am pretty but ALOT more beautiful on the inside(as other said and I believe). I am 5 feet 6 inches, 120 ibs, 36C small-medium frame. I'm skinny with a little bit of belly. I don't drive nor have a place of my own but I do go to college. I used to have single guy friends but gave up on them because they were friends for the wrong reasons. So all my guy friends are older and married and I know and believe that nothing will happen as much as I believe the sky is blue. I am sweet, kind, love to help others, quiet in groups, ethical, respectful, smart in my own way, confident, wear nice clothes that flatter me but I don't show my cleavage or stomach.
Anyway any suggestions? On getting guy friends? I got a few aquaintances that aren't yet friends that are guys. How would I know they're my friends. I know I'm 'too young' lol b
2006-12-26 14:04:23 · 5 answers · asked by i_ship_jolie_pitt_aniston_2getha 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
But how do you know if they're your friends if you guys don't hang out? I usually hang out in my dorms, like in the middle of outgoing and shy lol.
I want a guy that I'm friends with first and see if we can go from there. I don't know if it's my looks, the way I dress, or my personality or additude?
Do you need to see a pic to see if it's looks?
I've had 5 sexaholic guys say I'm unattractive(which I don't believe them and no I didn't ask them.)
2006-12-26 14:06:05 · update #1
I'm 22......................
2006-12-26 14:18:30 · update #2
I live in the USA
2006-12-26 14:18:47 · update #3
I am sure you are fine just as you are. You sound like you are putting a bit too much emphasis on appearance. A true friend doesn't care about such things, so if true friendship is what you're looking for, it doesn't matter. As to how to make frineds... just be yourself. Talk to people when there is an opportunity and just relax. See where the conversation goes. If you find someone you connect with, common interests and such, things will fall into place. You'll probably find it easier to find friends if you stop focussing so hard on finding them. Let it happen naturally.
2006-12-26 14:48:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I find it kind of odd how concerned you are wtih your appearance. As much as you say that you are confident with the way that you look, you must be fairly preoccupied with it if you went into as much detail as you did in your post (even down to your cup size). It's great to be confident, but another to be completely preoccupied with your looks, but maybe I'm way off base here.
Anyways, I find the best way to get guy friends is to approach them. You go to college so just talk to guys in your classes. The one thing I've realized is that it is WAY better to approach guys because 95% pf guys that will approach a girl are arrogant assholes who are looking to have sex.
I was really scared to talk to people in my classes, but when I needed notes one day I forced myself to work up the courage to talk to someone, and of course chose a hottie in my class. Although nothing came of that romantically, I at least had someone that I could ask for help from whenever I needed it.
2006-12-26 14:23:48 · answer #2 · answered by moi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 16:34:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound perfect to me. Too durn bad I'm already taken--a looooonnng time ago. BUT, be friendly, concentrate on being a happy productive person and there'll be a guy you'll connect with.
2006-12-26 14:10:33 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound fine to me. What age are you and do you live in the Central West of NSW?
2006-12-26 14:17:29 · answer #5 · answered by kicking_back 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋