or not worthy of a guy you like?
Curious I used to feel that way couple of years ago, someone said I have low self esteem so now I'm very confident but not too confident.
2006-12-26 13:57:22 · 7 answers · asked by i_ship_jolie_pitt_aniston_2getha 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Could you state reasons why that would be low self esteem?
2006-12-26 14:00:29 · update #1
My way of thinking is that If you think you are not good enough for a person it is just because in your heart you wonder Is he or she good enough to be with me. I had that same question in me a couple of times and you know I find the answer out the hard way, no dear there is nothing wrong with your self esteem as a matter of fact I think you are better then what you think,you know it will be a mistake that is why you ask that question am I good enough for him you know in your heart you are to good for him.
And you know I feel good share this with you because I know you are a strong person just like me so please don't make the same mistakes I have done for so many years IF you didn't believe in your self you wouldn't ask that question trust your instincts and believe in your self it is easy just follow your heart.
Good luck and remember every Strong person got a week link just like a chain LOVE ALL AND DISREGARD THOSE WHO THINK YOU ARE A FOOL.
2006-12-26 14:15:13 · answer #1 · answered by tazdevil007au 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that's pretty much one of the symptoms. Somehow you learned that you aren't "good enough" or pretty enough or something enough and that messages STICKS in the brain big time. The reality is, of course, you ARE enough of everything that you need to be. Remember the Wizard of Oz? Four people are searching for things to complete themselves--a heart, a body, a home and something else. When the penultimate moment comes and they get to the person with all the answers they find they had what they needed within them all the time. You just have to use what you have.
2006-12-27 06:59:56 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it does mean that u have low self esteem. i know this because i used to think the same thing. i loved the popular guys and i thought too myself i could never get with them because i am not like skinny, blonde cheerleader.
it means that u have low self esteem because u r not soppose to think u r below anyone, to have high self esteem is to mean u value yourself very much.
2006-12-26 22:00:56 · answer #3 · answered by Miki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i dont think so , you setting a score for your self,and been true to your self ,low self esteem isnt even close here.
2006-12-26 22:02:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you don't think that you are worthy of someones attention.
2006-12-26 23:12:18 · answer #5 · answered by docie555@yahoo.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont think so because this girl dumped me that i liked and i was like watever im not good enough for you. i dont care about her i guess i never really like her but that what i thought, its not u its him. he dosent like u, no y? cuz theres someone better for u out there. that wat i think i no ill meet the perfect person for me. and so will u
2006-12-26 22:06:18 · answer #6 · answered by razorsharpdut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I'm glad you are more confident now.
2006-12-26 22:00:20 · answer #7 · answered by Charlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋