What attracts you to other males? Doesn't anal sex hurt? What do you check on males? Why males and not females?
2006-12-26 13:49:42 · 15 answers · asked by prettyaspnk 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I understand and believe the whole homosexuality is a genetic triat, not a lifestyle choice. I am in no way trying to start a controversial topic here, it isjust hard for me to understand. I'd love to chat with any gay males, so if any of you are open to answer my odd questions about your sexuality let me know in an email or something! I am just very curious. I am not homophobic. I have no personal issues or problems with males being gay. I want a window into a gay man's mind, even if it is only for a quick second.
2006-12-26 14:57:43 · update #1
What attracts me to other males?
That is as easy to answer as to why my favorite color is blue. I don't know why I like guys or the color blue, I just know that I do and that it can't change.
As far as the certain kind of §€X, if it is someone you are really into and you take your time, it doesn't hurt at all and can feel quite good.
What do you check on males?
I like slender (but not skinny) guys, I love guys with Roman noses and shorter hair, I prefer guys who are smooth (not hairy), and a cute smile.
Why males and not females?
I'm just not sexually attracted to girls. I can love girls (just not that way) and can be friends with girls; but with a guy there is just a certain spark that is different and has a whole bundle of feelings that goes along with the attraction.
2006-12-26 15:34:16 · answer #1 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What attracts you to males? Probably a lot of the same things. (Then again, I do personally have a pretty unique taste in men, but still).
Not if you're doing it right. "Uncomfortable" the first time or two, yes, but it shouldn't ever hurt.
For me...one of the things I find I'm often drawn to is a guy's smile. No, seriously. I'm definitely big on the face (some other guys I know are more about the body). ANd some guys' faces just absolutely light up when they smile.
Why males and not females? Um...why are you attracted to males? Whatever the reason is there, I'm sure it's connected.
2006-12-26 17:41:25 · answer #2 · answered by Atropis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, I cannot speak on behalf of the entire gay male population, but I am attracted to masculine energy rather than a one set steriotype or card board cut out of a "man-gendered person".
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Firstly, any kind of sex hurts when a person doesnt know their own body and has a partner who is inexperienced and or neglectful. To have good sex, no matter what kind, it takes time and understanding and communication and a knowledge of safe sex practices and self-awareness.
Sorry, I never check on "males" perhaps the question is, what do I find appealing in human beings. The list is long so I wont go into it here.
Thirdly, every one has a prefence. Mine happens to be masculinity.
2006-12-26 20:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by Orditz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 08:43:11 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What attracts us to other males? What attracts YOU to males? Same thing here! Their just so damn HOT!
On the second part, yes if not done right, however the Male G-Sport is INSIDE of it! So, once inside, you never feel better! The Prostrate is what the male G-spot (graffenberg spot) or the place on a male or females body, that gets them the "hottest." By rubbing it, inside, you can make a male *rgasm.
I check out everything you do. Is he good looking, clean, nice? Why males? I don't know, I've never, ever been attracted to females and I've thought about males this way since at least 5.
2006-12-26 14:15:54 · answer #5 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am attracted to males in the same way that a straight person is attracted to the opposite sex. There is a lot of research that is starting to prove that homosexuality is a genetic trait. That basically means that I do not choose to be gay (although, I don't need a scientist to tell me that), just as you do not choose to be straight. It is part of who I am. I cannot answer your second question, because I am a virgin and have never experienced anal sex. Just remember, gay men do not choose their sexual preference. It is something we are born with. Gay men who think they do not choose it are confused.
2006-12-26 14:14:35 · answer #6 · answered by Hmmm... 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not a gay male, but I'm going to give it a shot:
1) What attracts them to other males? Different things! Just like there's no catch-all thing that attracts straight men to women, or straight women to men, what attracts us is different for everyone.
2) Does anal sex hurt? Yes, sometimes. But if you do it correctly, there is only minor discomfort and first, if any at all, and it goes away. And that's true for men and women who practice anal sex, gay, straight, or lesbian. There's a reason why people do it- it's pleasurable. If it wasn't, they wouldn't. And remember that a lot of gay men don't have anal sex. In fact, in most surveys, they report oral sex and mutual masturbation as being their two favorite acts, before anal sex.
3) Why do gay men 'check on' males and not females? Because they feel an attraction towards the male sex! I hate to say it, but 'Duh!'. They simply look at women and don't feel anything sexy, but for men, they do. It's not a concious choice.
Hope that's helped!
2006-12-26 13:53:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 1⤋
What attract me to other males is their butt, muscular legs and a pretty smile with beautiful lips. Anal sex does not really hurt if you get a champion sex machine like my main sqeeze LOL! and why males and not females... Well they missing an important piece but sex with them is not that bad.LOL!!!
2006-12-27 00:32:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am bi-curious.
for me emotional love isn't about physical. it isn't about whether a person has a penis or a vagina. it's all about personality, values, and willingness to love and accept me.
never had actual anal sex but i do enjoy a vibrator up the butt while i play with myself. yes it is a bit painful, but a little pain along with pleasure can make for an overall enjoyable experience.
check on males? i envy what i don't have. i am overweight, so i appreciate a good athletic body. muscles on arms and legs.
i also look to see whether or not guys shave their body.. i shave everything and love doing it.. love chatting with other guys who like shaving.
why not females? well, i can't really answer this part. i love females!!!!
2006-12-26 14:16:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry not a gay guy but.....
I've wondered the same thing? I mean women barely even like men. I mean women are the fairer sex. Hell like only 70% of the men in the entire world are even kind of good looking. What on earth is sexy about getting fecal matter on your penis. Isn't that a bit strange to you. What do you do if you have hemerrhoids or an anal fissure. Do you ever get scared you will hurt yourself having sex that way. Why do some gay men act like women? Why act like a women if you want to attract gay men who are supposed to like men? I'm not trying to be mean I just don't get it?
2006-12-26 13:55:26 · answer #10 · answered by evilive 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋