I need some advice from guys, and girls too, please. What can a girl do to be sexy? I want to know, what turns a guy on, what keeps his attention, what guys want in a girl?
The reason I am asking, is I have been feeling alittle down lately, Recent events in my life have broken my self confidence, as well as my heart. But that is a long story.
I have always been the sweet, cute type, but I want to be sexy, to be able to turn a guy on. So I want to get guys opinons and advice, as well as girls.
So what is sexy to you? Clothes, hair, looks, attitude, ways to act, things to try? Suggestions, advice, anything?
Is it possible for one girl to be enough for a guy, to keep him happy, where he atleast wouldn't watch other girls?
Thanks
2006-12-26 13:48:41 · 37 answers · asked by xmariedragonx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
In order for someone to like you, you have to like yourself first.
If you want to keep a guy.... try this:
You find a guy who makes YOU happy and is good enough for YOU to keep. Not the other way around girl!
2006-12-26 13:58:41 · answer #1 · answered by RT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are already sexy enough. Just start conversations with more guys, but not guys who are wearing wedding rings or guys that you think are too ugly. Sooner or later you will meet a guy who may not be your Mr Right, but he could be your Mr Good enough. There are millions of lonely men who would absolutely delighted to be your boyfriend, and a few of these guys are men that you would not be embarrassed to be seen in public with. You may meet more men if you dress like a slut, but many of these guys are the kind of men who just want to seduce you, and then move on to the next girl, so l don't think trying to look more sexy will help. You dont need to do anything to turn on your boyfriend, just say let's get drunk and ****. Just because 1 man does'nt want you any more, it does'nt mean other men don't. If a man is a loser a half of a girl would be enough to keep him happy. If you must have a guy who won't watch girls, you will have to find a blind man. If I were dating you, would'nt have to change anything about yourself, I would love you just the way you are. the censored word rhymes with shut
2006-12-26 14:36:34 · answer #2 · answered by Tim'sSO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need more confidence. No matter how much you improve your outer appeareance you inner feelings will remain the same and show like hazard lights to everyone around you. You are who you believe you are period. No matter how other people judge your appearance.
Why would you want to control a guy so he wouldn't look at another girl? That will never happen unless that guy is a submissive punk. Guys will always notice and be attracted to girls. But the guy who is your guy will be your guy regardless of what is in his environment because he values you as a whole person. Any man you have to control is not yours. You should never have to convince someone to want you.
Beleive it or not most guys find sweet and cute sexy. It has a sense of mystery and wonder rather than the boobilicious chick who looks like she's been around the block a couple of times and is trying too hard to portray an image rather than just be herself.
2006-12-26 13:56:25 · answer #3 · answered by Bonita Applebaum 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey sweetie,
Yeah I'm the sweet, soft, kind of person too... I like being that way, because then guys will look at you and be like yeah, she's really sweet instead of loud and yappy... I don't think lots of guys like those type of people.. I think when it all comes down to it, the right guy will look at you and LOOOVEEE you for who you are.. and that is the sweet, soft, quiet loving girl you are...
I know I have friends and they are so soft and sweet and I just adore that! I think the smile really is a gem.. when you smile and be content with what you have, then you truly are happy with yourself and your life...
I don't know if you're into this kind of thing, but God has been teaching me that....
Keep smiling and no matter what the situation you still smile...
To be content with what you have and just be a blessing to others...
Just be who you are and learn how to be content with yourself.. if you have to stand in front of the mirror for 30 minutes just to tell yourself and look at yourself and say that you are beautiful and BELIEVE it.. do it! Do whatever it takes, but clothes will not make you happy, Jesus will though...
Blessings!
2006-12-26 14:10:57 · answer #4 · answered by Mickey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u could have the looks but b as dumb as a door nail.... u need to have self confidence, always smile, acknowledge the person thats lookin at u by lookin back and givin them little smile,, when u are talkin to a guy, make sure that u know what u are talkin about when u 2 are conversating.. a girl who is intelligent gets a guy thinkin wow, shes very intresting....and also lookin after urself, not wearing to reavealli clothes cause u want to leave some for the imagination,, not too much make up u want them to see u for who u are, not a clown,, have a confident attitude but not tooo nasty or abrupt,, make sure when ur walkin that ur head is up not lookin down and smilin wen walkin.....as far as keepin 1 guy happy so that he doesnt look at other girls.... well if u get one like that then he is a keeper,, cause not many guys do that,, they need to look
2006-12-26 13:59:39 · answer #5 · answered by sweetness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men and women are different. (I know, duh!) Men are as visual and graphic as women are sensitive and romantic. Still, sexy starts with an attitude, which then manifests itself through clothing, hair styles, etc.
Personally, I think sexy is a positive attitude, a lean body, a classy, tailored attire emphasizing feminity, and a consistency of both words and actions. Physically, I'm attracted to long legs and devilish smiles.
One woman can keep a man happy and satisfied, but it takes work. (Every relationship takes work, especially the good ones.) On the other hand, complacency kills that bond as much as obesity. Guys will stay in love with a woman until she falls short of what he sees as the 'minimum expectations', then it's all over but the lawyers and fights.
I hope it works. Drop me a note if you want more of my admittedly biased opinion. Good luck.
2006-12-26 14:05:34 · answer #6 · answered by Ketel One Up 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confidence is one thing. humor is sexy also. if you can make a guy laugh well... thats good. clothes? dress with class and sexxyness. not too much skin. but revealing enough to show ur curves. no skank clothing.
HEELS always turn a guy on. show off ur legs.. with those new style skirts.
hair? leave it doen and straighten it. make up? well not that much jsut skin moisturizer and some light pink gloss.
be...
well.. a lil wild.. surprise him. ya know? i mean... make moves on him flirt a lil and tease him. be mysterious... and the sexy smile hehe.
do not..
over react. don;t panic stay calm.
but really... truely all this doesn;tmatter but it could help
because a guy will love you wherther ur sexy or not.
2006-12-26 13:53:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just need to tell yourself that you don't need a man to feel good about yourself because you don't. Get some self confidence by looking like you want to and knowing you look good. If your happy with yourself, then you show it even if you don't realize it. Look guys in the eye like you see straight through them...but don't stare for too long! It works for me and my fiance thinks I'm totally sexy...even when I don't. All you need is confidence!
2006-12-26 14:07:52 · answer #8 · answered by aneps_grl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is...just be yourself, the rest will naturally occur.
If you have to hide who you are outside, you'll be living a lie that will perpetuate into a mess.
I am 44 yrs old and have been with my wife (faithfully) for 26 years, so yes it is possible to keep you partner happy. Oh, by the way, Guys look at other girls. It doesn't mean we are looking for a replacement, it's just men (most) find women attractive....don't be jealous. The day a man stops looking, is the day you should be concerned about him.
2006-12-26 13:58:35 · answer #9 · answered by Wabbit 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A girl that is truly herself and that doesn't care what the celebrities where or what anyone else thinks is what's sexy.
I'm lucky enough to have that type of girl. She is nice and the sweetest and she smiles all the time and I know her smile is genuine.
A real girl is much sexier than any girl who's fake and sadly too many girls are fake these days trying to be something they're not.
2006-12-26 13:53:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋