I Need help with this....pregnacy?

Question

welll i had sex today...and idk if i could be pregnat...the condom came off and i think he stuck it in w/out the condom on...and he pre-cums alot...so it could have gotten me pregnat...how can i tell w/out having to go to the doctors? b/c my parents wouldnt approve...im 17 1/2...so yeah they wouldnt approve...ne help?

well b4 i put that i was 17 1/2.........well im auctully 15.....yeah this can/is going to be bad

Answer 1

If you feel nauseous, like you have to throw-up, then
You need to see if you miss a period.
Then if you do, take a home pregnancy test.
Then ask if one of your friends' or your friends' parents can take you to the doctor without your parents knowing.
Ask to get a urine and blood pregnancy test.
If you are pregnant, then don't panic, because now you have to tell your parents, because if you are, eventually, your parents are going to notice, believe me, I know. I just had a baby myself, six months ago, and it was hard for me, and my parents never accept the fact that I had a baby at such a young age, because I'm only 19, but they do love my baby, even if they don't love the choice I made, they love her. And that guy you had sex with, I would also get a STD test, and an HIV test, because if he could let a condom fall off, and not replace it, then something is wrong with him, like maybe he's trying to give you some kind of disease, or get you pregnant, to prove that he's some kind of man, or something. Anyway, please do as I say, for your own safety, and your peace of mind, believe me, getting these tests done, can either save your life, or break you down. But do it anyway, you'll feel better about yourself afterward. I hope that my advice helps, and good luck!

Answer 2

WOW! What is wrong with this guy?!?! You've got to tell him to slow down and pay attention to what he's doing! Sex is great but the fun's all over when you're 17 and having to deal with an unplanned pregnancy! If the condom comes off, get a new one and wait until it's on before continuing!! Okay, that aside, go to the drug store and get a pregnancy test (like e.p.t.). They are usually about $13 and can give you an accurate response within two days of the "incident"

Answer 3

You'll have to wait until your period. Home pregnancy tests only work around the time of your period. You know those commercials that say a certain test can let you know 3 days before your missed period? And 3 days before is an extreme chance of knowing. You also have to think about what it takes to get pregnant. Did he actually ejaculate or was it only the pre stuff? The pre stuff CAN have sperm in it, but not necassarily. You're probably not pregnant, but this should teach you that condoms aren't 100% effective. Think about the rips and tears invisible to the naked eye but large enough to let sperm through. I hope the sex was well worth all the worrying you're gonna do!

Answer 4

Well first I think it's safe to say if your parents wouldn't approve of you being pregnant I don't think they would approve of you having sex either! There is no test that can tell the same day if you are pregnant. The most advanced tests can only tell after your first skipped period. They make "the morning after" pills, but I don't know if they are available in the US...just keep in mind...these are an abortion in a bottle! So you need to get your decision figured out first, so not make your choice on what your parents will or sill not approve of, you didn't think of their approval when you laid on your back...think of what YOU want and what YOU can live with for what ever choice you make! Good Luck!

Answer 5

If you just had sex today there is no way to find out if your pregnant or not until at least a few days before your next period is due. The best thing to do is to wait until then and go buy a pregnancy test ( you can get them pretty cheap) and see how that goes. If it's a neg. and you still don't start your period, you just may have to go to a doctor anyway and get a blood test. Good luck

Answer 6

If it just happened today, there's no way to know. Actual conception wouldn't even happen until days from now. The only thing you can do, depending on where you live, is see a doctor and get "the morning after pill". You can go to Planned Parenthood and your parents wouldn't have to know.
Some people will try to lecture you on safer sex practices, talking to your parents, and saving yourself for marriage, but the bottom line is, it's already happened and now you need to know what to do next. Yes, the ideal thing is to be able to talk to your parents. You might be surprised at how understanding they can be. But maybe not. Planned Parenthood can help you with all aspects of dealing with the situation. Good luck!

Answer 7

Wait for your period if it doesn't come then you may be pregnant. You should see a doc or midwife. You can go to PRC if you have one in your area and they can do a free pregnancy test for you and give you all options available and give you resources for all those options. They are a caring place and confidential as well. if you do a google search for Pregnancy resource center and the location in which you live one should come up.

Answer 8

Ask a friend who is 18 to go get a morning-after or plan-B pill for you (either from the pharmacy or from planned parenthood) ASAP (only affective up to 72 hours later I believe) and take it. Then go to planned parent and get on birth control before you are sexually active again.

Answer 9

you'll have to wait and see if you miss a period. If you do than you can take an over the counter pregnancy test that you can buy at any store like Walmart or CVS.

Answer 10

try a home pregnancy test right around or on the day of your period? most planned parenthoods willprovide a confidential consultation and bloood test for hcg pregnancy levels. good luck