HE COMES TO ME FOR ADVICE. THEY ARE NOT LIVING TOGETHER BUT IS REALLY TRYING TO MAKE IT WORK. IS IT ODD HE ASK ME TO GO TO MOVIE WITH HIM?
2006-12-26 13:41:08 · 13 answers · asked by superstar2007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't think it is odd, but my other friends think so.
2006-12-26 15:13:42 · update #1
Ooooh, ya I'd keep my distance in that arena- more for you than him. You dont' want to get attached to him and then he go back with her. It may not seem possible but these things get emotional and you know us women who are caretakers..... Then, when you find out you're having fun with him, and he's sensitive, and a great guy- one problem- He wants her!!!
2006-12-26 13:44:28 · answer #1 · answered by littledreamergirl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I do think it is odd that he asked you to go to a movie with him. No matter how innocent his intentions are, it is not a good situation for either of you to be in while he is trying to reconcile his marriage. Advice is one thing but any perception of a date would probably not be good. Not that his wife has to know about it, but how would all three of you feel if she did know? Would there be any misperceptions and lead to them not being able to work it out? If they did not work it out, how would that make you feel? Overall, it is my opinion that it is an odd thing for him to ask you to a movie. Hope this helps.
2006-12-26 13:50:39 · answer #2 · answered by Curious 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No! Of course not. They're just friends. If two girls can go to a movie together, and so can two guys, why not a guy and a girl? My friend and I do it all the time- and my bf doesn't even mind.
2006-12-26 13:44:13 · answer #3 · answered by Kouya-chan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your friend and its probably financial situation due to rent. You guys are friends that are convenient for things like movies and hangin out once and a while.
2006-12-26 13:52:19 · answer #4 · answered by sk20007623 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Noo not at all. Freinds can b freinds................ It dont matter if ur boys or girls. If u feel uncomfortable tho then talk with him... before going out with him thou tell him there are rules and if they are broken have someone avalable to pick u up when u call them. keep a phone with you if that helps u feel more comfortable.
2006-12-26 13:47:57 · answer #5 · answered by kayanbean24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So friends cant go see movies now? I wouldnt be worried until he takes "it" out...then you might have a problem...
2006-12-26 13:44:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. Friends are fine being the oppsite sex. One of my best freinds is a guy?
2006-12-26 13:45:46 · answer #7 · answered by ~Heather~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nuthin wrong wit dat i see alot of demm around yall both friends right, so dont worry , its sound ur depressed or sumthin no offense or wateva, just be cool, dont think of da subject
2006-12-26 13:45:47 · answer #8 · answered by personaltiyqueen92 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no...its not...your aloud to hav friends of the other sex....but his gf friend might hav problems w/it...but its not wrong....as long as nothin happens...if his gf has problems w/it than try to not go out together!!
2006-12-26 13:44:27 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that the female friend is fat and unattractive. Am I right?
2006-12-26 13:56:32 · answer #10 · answered by Prindap 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋