ok so i have you go and get a physcial in 2 days ok.. and i shaved my vigina but i have not started my period and the doctor has to look down there and my mom told me that i am not alloud to shave down there so what do i dont alot i want to know how do i talk to my mom about stuff i want to be closer with her i just dont know what do say i want to be able to talk to hera bout anything like puberty how do i start......
2006-12-26 13:33:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
I really feel for you. When you go for your physical, you need to tell your mom that you want privacy. If it's a male doctor then a female nurse must be in the room...so having your mom in there would be unnecessary (plus too crowded!).
Not knowing how old you are makes this a bit tricky to answer well. I know it can be hard, perhaps next to impossible, to talk w/some parents. I am a mom of a 15 1/2 yr. old daughter and we have a great, open relationship. She can tell me almost everything. If you find you are unable to talk w/her, try to find another female adult whom you can trust (a school counselor, friend's mom, teacher, or other female relative).
Good luck, and take care.
2006-12-26 13:43:48 · answer #1 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mom wont' know unless she looks. Usually when you go to the doc they drape a paper sheet over you. Tell your mom you need privacy when you get undressed if she is in the room. If you don't want her there at all just tell her. She can wait in the waiting room for you.
2006-12-26 13:39:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best suggestion, just fess up and tell mom.
2006-12-26 13:38:13 · answer #3 · answered by w3_gw0nnb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing
2006-12-26 13:35:50 · answer #4 · answered by hari 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋