I am 7 months pregnant and married for almost 3 years and my husband never acts like he's attracted to me. It really hurts and I want to know if most men are like that or if there is something wrong with my husband? i want sex all the time and he only touches me when he feels like it's been too long. Please help!
2006-12-26 12:50:20 · 25 answers · asked by Summer 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like he's just afraid he might hurt you or the baby, dumb,but take it from a man that had the same dumb thoughts. Just reasure him and don't take no for an answer.
2006-12-26 13:13:27 · answer #1 · answered by chosen37 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Both times when I was pregnant I had men asking me out, I thought it was weird, and at the same time my husband and I started having even more sex. So I have to say Yes some men do find pregnant women very attractive.
2006-12-26 12:56:44 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
There are some men out there who find pregnant women attractive, but I don't think they are in the majority. That having been said, SOMEBODY needs to slap your husband upside the head! To be honest I can understand if he doesn't think you look as hot as you did on your wedding night, but
A. This is a temporary situation
B. He helped make it happen.
C. Love isn't about sex. Love is about letting your wife know that you still think she's beautiful, even if right at this particular moment she's not quite at her peak! Hopefully he'll come around. Good luck. And good luck with the baby.
2006-12-26 12:56:08 · answer #3 · answered by danl747 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
When my wife was pregnant with our 3 children, I found her incredibally attractive and sexy. Her skin looked great, her hair looked great.
There are some guys out there who don't find pregnant women attractive. And it sounds like your husband might be one of them.
But as far as your wanting sex, tell him that your in the mood.
Also if he's in a job that's causing alot of stress it may have an effect on him sexually, because stress can have a damaging effect on a man's sex drive. I know from personal expirience.
Hope that this helps. But I suggest that you both sit down and talk about it.
2006-12-26 13:47:41 · answer #4 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
my husband has admitted to me that if a woman he normally wouldn't find attractive is pregnant, he sometimes finds her attractive because she's pregnant. he's fascinated by the way a woman can grow a child inside of herself. but i don't know if that's common. i do know that it's normal to feel insecure during a pregnancy and it's possible you are seeing things that aren't there (or not seeing things that are there). maybe the sex thing is because he's worried it'll hurt you or the baby. and here's the good news: in 2 months, you'll have your child, and you'll both be a little saner. then maybe some things will go back to a more normal way.
2006-12-27 07:33:03 · answer #5 · answered by Eowyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah that is kinda humorous, i be attentive to a guy who loves the look of pregnant women human beings. because i all started exhibiting i've got been getting hit on in all threat appropriate to comparable to when I wasn't pregnant even nonetheless presently those men are 10-15 years older than me!!! this is loopy!!! My sister has observed that still whilst she's been out with me.
2016-10-28 10:38:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men I know are very attracted to pregnant women. Also they love to have sex with them. my husband drove me crazy when I was pregnant. I didn't like to have sex to much. He knew I was pregnant before I did something about how it feels different. Sorry he's treating you that way!
2006-12-26 12:55:04 · answer #7 · answered by I wanna stay on maternity leave! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live in Florida?My husband and I would be happy to take care of your beautiful body! Love those volumptuous breasts!
He's always wanted it even through all 3 pregnancies. And were here for you too. Your husbands a jerk. Maybe your no Shakira right now but he needs to know how horrible you feel. being pregnant is a very sensitive time.
2006-12-26 12:55:06 · answer #8 · answered by TrofyWife 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your husband is an IDIOT! Some of the most memorable moments of my marriage were when I helped my girl put on her pajamas. Putting Coco butter on her belly and feeling my children kicking and playing inside her. That glow she had in her face. Naw baby, its one of those moments when a woman is at her most beautiful. That's my honest answer.
To let you know pregnant women are attractive to men there are actually porn sites DEVOTED to naked pregnant women.
Now theirs the possibility he feels he may hurt you by serving you but to not have any attraction for who you are and how you look... He could be an idiot!
2006-12-26 13:49:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes definitely a few...pregnant women tend to give off a glow and a sexuality that guys find attractive. Pregnancy makes you more of a woman and feminine and them feel more manly
2006-12-26 12:56:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋