She has changed a lot over the past year, going out every night until all hours, claims that this acquaintance of hers is her best friend (not her husband). He sleeps at their house after work, and she even made a room just for him. They are definately having problems in their marriage. I think this is horrible, especially because they have children. I don't even want to spend time with her anymore. Am I wrong to feel this way?
2006-12-26 12:23:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, you are not wrong for feeling this way! What she is doing is wrong, she is married....even if they are not messing around, shame on her.
2006-12-26 13:10:12 · answer #1 · answered by veronica c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yowee does Uncle Buc, Aunt Marge, and my three cousins count? It coulda been OK in a bed larger than a twin. Ya know what,,, in a very serious note, sometimes we can't know wrong till after,,,right? Looking BACK on it is hardly ever the way we look at it in the moment though or we wouldn't do it in the first place. Um I'm not really so qualified anyway, with so little experience, but stuff comes back to haunt us don't it? Karma gets all of us. The good, the bad, and the ugly. Guilt after is a waste of time though. Ya cant ever take back what ya did, or should ya carry it around forever. I posted a comment to myself today on my 360. "Life is a lot like a Rodeo. One Buckin thing after another." Hugs, Dallas
2016-05-23 09:11:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a few problems but mainly that she doesn't view her husband as a good friend who she goes out and has a fun time with. There is nothign wrong with having a fun time with other guys but it sounds like he is more than that. I can understand maybe a night or two but once she's made a room for him it implys that she wants him to stay there. I'm supprised the husband hasn't done something about it I'd sure say its wrong.
2006-12-26 12:29:03 · answer #3 · answered by RandomMan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think you're wrong for feeling that way. I would avoid that place like the plague. Be very careful that you're not pulled into the middle of that.....sooner or later their problems will come to a head, and you don't want to be no where around them when it happens. Best of luck to you.
2006-12-26 12:29:53 · answer #4 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only problem is the way you feel. The relationship is their relationship if the husband allows it then there is no problem that you can solve. Thus, stay out and move on unless you can prove that some kind of criminal activity is taking place.
2006-12-26 12:49:33 · answer #5 · answered by georgiabanksmartin 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it is rather judgemental of you. Since it is HER home and HER life and HER marriage you really have nothing to say in the matter either way.
2006-12-26 13:43:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No and stay completely away from that situation. Sooner or later it's going to come crumbling down and make sure none of it lands on you.
2006-12-26 12:26:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are spot on. You are setting boundaries, something she definitely has not done. You are giving her the best gift of friendship you can when you use those boundaries - an example of what she needs.
2006-12-26 12:27:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are wrong for feeling that way. Why on earth would her husband agree to this arrangement. She is playing with fire
2006-12-26 12:25:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh, that's just wrong! Uh unless this guy is gay and really gay wears pinks/high heels!I believe she is probably bopping that guy.This is really messed up like Jerry Spinger live messed up!!!!
2006-12-26 12:28:01 · answer #10 · answered by Monet 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋