And he wants her to "do" it with her whenever HE wants to. Even when she is on her period. He grosses me out. He thinks she is some sexual machine.....my mom doesn't feel like doing it everyday with him, is that so bad? He has porn on his music folder. And he has tried to hit her before....he is NASTY, i dislike him, how do i get rid of him?? I know this sounds bad since he is my dad.
2006-12-26 12:23:43 · 24 answers · asked by Bob the Cat.™ 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
ON THE QUESTION I MEANT.....
"She doesn't want to "do" it with HIM!!!!"
2006-12-26 12:25:27 · update #1
put some salt peter in his grits and mashed potatoes .... that should slow him down
2006-12-26 12:25:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like a dysfunctional family to me, mom and dad arguing about sex in front of the children.... You say he has tried to hit her? Do you have any proof or are you just telling that so we will take Mommy's side? Look, if he doesn't get sex from her then he WILL get it from somewhere else,so wait it out,he will have an affair,mom will find out ,then they will get divorced,YOU get what YOU want and as long as YOU are happy that's all that matters ,right?
2006-12-26 20:32:57 · answer #2 · answered by Droptine s 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first
men and women are VERY VERY different , no matter what anybody trys to tell you about them being different
if she wants it every hour and he wants it once a year , its NOT gonna work
I would not force anybody to do it, EVER
I would leave and get some before going crazy from lack of it though.
The libido of the two partners should be at least sort of close and they should at least TRY to please each other.
If the parents are happy and satisfied, the kids have a really good life too. If one or both are not gettin enough, hell for everybody.
2006-12-26 20:30:19 · answer #3 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not bad that your mom wishes not to engage in sexual activities every day. Your dad I'm sorry to say sounds like a very self-centered and potentially hurtful person, especially if he hits your mom and yells constantly at her. This scenario is referred to as domestic violence and it is not acceptable. If your dad continues to harm your mom in these manners, go to your friend's house, neighbor, teacher, even the police, whomever you trust, and tell them what is going on immediately. It is against the law for your dad to hit your mom in such a way that it hurts her.
2006-12-26 20:30:31 · answer #4 · answered by Jeremy L 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to your mom about it.It`s ther ONLY way because it`s her that`s stuck in that crappy relationship.Tell her how you feel about it.That`s how I got rid of my ex step-father.He was really mean with my mom and sometimes i just felt like hitting him.But I talked to my mom and she realised she was worth more that that. Try it...She should`nt be living that there is so many nice men on this planet...
2006-12-26 20:29:51 · answer #5 · answered by kim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're truely serious then it is sad that you know so much personal info about your parents private issues. Obviously they have problems that they cannot keep private, and are spilling into their kids lives. Speak to an adult you trust, if there is violence involved someone needs to know , whether youre mother thinks so or not. Take care.
2006-12-26 20:32:46 · answer #6 · answered by Skanky McSkankypants 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try digging up dirt on him. someone that nasty must have a past. if anything is found report the police or if he becomes out of control try restraining order. or persuade your mom to leave him. he seems to be abusing her and why should any woman have to put up with that
2006-12-26 20:29:39 · answer #7 · answered by Jean 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think the best thing for your Mom to do is to show him his hand and say use it! And don't delete the porn whatever you do!
Some men just have to learn that we are not always there to take care of them when they want how they want...
2006-12-26 20:28:15 · answer #8 · answered by JustLynn 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like its your moms problem
eww talking about parents and sex is weird.
Let your mom know your there and be strong for her???
2006-12-26 20:26:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't anything you can do about it. That would be a decision your mom should make. You can try talking about it with her.
2006-12-26 20:26:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't even know how to touch this one because I can't tell if you're serious or not.
2006-12-26 20:25:46 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋