Ok me and my friends are going to the movies. (About 3 or 4 of us.) And somehow this girl that thinks she is our friend found out we were going. We know she'll be there and be wanting to hang out with us. What can we do to embarrass her? She is always doing stuff to us. What can we do to get back at her??
Also we are all 13 & 14. We will be at the mall & movies.
What is the funniest time you ever embarrassed someone??
2006-12-26 11:34:04 · 29 answers · asked by →.Flawless.← 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I would not embarrass her
thats a shame
Try and be her friend or at least be nice to her
I dont like when people do things behind other peoples backs
be nice to her
and dont be evil
cause if you do
it will come back and kick you in ***
and ill be rooting it on
to get right up there.
2006-12-26 11:38:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I guess embarrassing someone is the easy way but why not try for something better than that. Why not be a leader in your group and welcome the girl nicely. If she continues to be awful to you all then try to talk to her. That way if she is who you describe, there can be no mistake when you just tell her that you don't want to hang out and why. But what if she is honestly trying to make a change in her life. The change where she starts to treat people better. Maybe this is an opportunity for you to change or improve your behavior. Everybody could win. But trying to embarrass someone is never the right answer. It generally will come back to haunt you somehow in your future.
Think about it....
2006-12-26 12:27:49 · answer #2 · answered by Goodmomma1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is the reason you don't want her around you and the crew? Be careful what you do to others because it will come back on you and your friends harder. I know you all are very young now but you will never know when you may need this same girl. Don't embarrass this girl. Be the bigger person and be honest with her by saying pulling her to the side and tell her we don't want you to hang with us. Personally, I would let her hang out with us. Hey the more the merrier. Just have fun. Apparently this girl thinks a lot of you all to hang out with you all.
2006-12-26 11:47:23 · answer #3 · answered by Who me? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY ARE 13&14 YEAR OLD IN THE PARENTING PART OF THIS???????????????????????
Don't be mean.. Why would you do such a thing.
Remember what goes around comes around.. And that saying Do on to others as you would have done to you..
Be the better person.
And if your not her friend then tell her.
But don't be mean about it.
You are so unaware of what your actions truley do to people..
What if this girl only wants to be your friend and you go and do something stupied and embarse her and she goes home and trys to kill her self because she thinks no one likes her...It will be all your fault and you will have to live with that for the rest of your life.. Ask your self Is it worth it?
STOP AND THINK........................
DAM KIDS...
I hope that my child NEVER has to deal with anyone like you or your friends. YOU ARE MEAN PEOPLE.
AND MEAN PEOPLE SUCK.
Grow up........................
2006-12-26 11:53:10 · answer #4 · answered by Mellisa C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the most selfish thing I have ever heard. Trust me, you do not want to embarass this girl. Take it from me; i'm the one that was always embarassed. Every time I walked into the cafeteria for 2 years they yelled my name and made opera singing noises at me (i'm a vocalist). This lead to eating the the bathroom. Everytime someone invited me to their house, it was a setup to embarass me. It's because of people like you that I can't go anywhere without feeling self-concious. I hope this makes you think about the impact you will have on this girl. She probably needs a friend and you're shunning her Miss "flawless". believe me, if you want to do something so horrible you are not anywhere near flawless. You're heartless. feelingless. compassionless. senseless. USELESS. Don't embarass this girl. you'll regret it when you're old enough to think about your actions. take a walk in her shoes. you're immature. grow up.
2006-12-26 12:26:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt recommend that you embarass her that's only being immature and unfair due to there being 3 to 4 of you and only one of her, try and get in touch with her before your scheduled outing and let her know how you guys feel about her. Try and talk about your problems, maybe play the game of pass the baton so that each of you have a say on how you feel about eachother and work out your differences. Ask her why she does the things she does to you. She's probably usure of how to make friends with your type of crew, give her insight, clue her in on whats going on.
2006-12-26 12:48:17 · answer #6 · answered by bryteyes808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do anything to hurt that poor gals feelings I promise you, you will regret it in the future. If not even just when it happens, but years later. I would just pull her aside and let her gently know that she is not considered to be a part of your group, and that you all feel as if she is invading your personal space. Obviously a gentle tone will help.....
Think about it. Once you act, you cannot take what you did back. I know you will make the right choice
2006-12-26 11:38:55 · answer #7 · answered by Brandy W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is not nice of you.Imagine if your friends did that to you how would you feel.If you have a problem with the girl then confront her and let her know how you feel but don't go behind the girl's back and talk her.
2006-12-26 16:59:53 · answer #8 · answered by jamaican babe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a sleepover and invite everybody that you know and people who will tell anything even though you tell them not to. Then when she is sleep you pretend sleep and then get a glass of water. You make sure she is in deep sleep. then put her finger in the glass she should wet the bed and if she doesn't then you can slowly and be sneaky pour the water on to her. I think you should pour the water on her. You don't want pee pee on your floor lol! then you wake everybody else up for fake then you wake her up and tell her lets watch a movie. then when she gets up say her (name) "ill you wet yourself then everybody will be laughing. then when she goes to change you tell all your friends to tell everybody in school and then she will feel embarrass. then 2 months later tell ask her what if your friend embarrass you what would you do to them. if she says something bad then don't tell her about the water situation. if she says something good then tell her and say that you are very very sorry but you always doing stuff to us! that will work
2006-12-26 12:45:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
leave her alone. do something else if you don't want to hang out with her. if you ever mature you might want to be honest with her why you don't like her but in nice way. you might even find out you DO like her when you're not around your other immature girlfriends. but you don't sound mature or nice. so grow up a little, even though you're 13 you can be a little classier, ya think?
2006-12-26 12:49:15 · answer #10 · answered by jurema 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋