I have a 18 month daughter and i know if i left my husband he would try to take her away i love my husband but most of the time im so unhappy with the way he treats me.
2006-12-26 11:22:01 · 16 answers · asked by surfer girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
join the club......
try having a wife that has no intersest no matter how hard you try!!! and I go all out...laundry, cooking, clening, very romantic, giver!!
children come first.....i'll never ruin his (son) home......but would love to find our passion again!!
2006-12-26 14:21:52 · answer #1 · answered by faststang71 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the daughter is the reason why you are still there, and the only reason, then you have problems. You husband cannot take her from you, unless you're an unfit mother. Are you? You can't give what you don't have and if you don't love your husband than how can you morally "love" him. You love your daughter, I'm sure, and she loves you. That is unconditional. Try counseling, alone, to sort out your feelings, then confront your husband on civil terms. Do what is best for everyone, especially your daughter. Obtain custody of her before doing anything, first.
Good luck.
Pray, that is an option the world forgets. And, it should be the first thing we do.
2006-12-26 11:33:32 · answer #2 · answered by mickey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to shape up or ship out. You do not need to be treated that way. There are too many other men out there that would treat you a lot better....or maybe worse. The thing is, if you get out of a relationship, don't jump right into another one. Take your time and look around.
2006-12-26 11:26:16 · answer #3 · answered by tko43078 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband cannot take your daughter from you without a decision by a judge. He can, indeed, try but, that's rather unlikely. You don't have to live in an abusive relationship and it is hurting your daughter because she is learning that adults abuse one another. Any use to try counseling?
2006-12-26 11:27:51 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe he can take her away unless you do drugs or are abusive... If you're unhappy with the way he treats you, then you should leave him even if you have a child.
2006-12-26 11:27:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-01 05:00:57 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am stuck in a relationship now and have no choice but to stay in it. This man supports me fully and divorcing his wife for me, but we have been together now for 2 years. I feel utterly miserable and depressed. I am going to get out of it as soon as I can, when i have enough money saved. I hate being unhappy but I have no choice now but I have a definite plan to terminate this as soon as I can. We have to be responsible for our own happiness. and sometimes it takes a little time, but I feel for you and make sure you take care of yourself. save money and try and get a divorce. we deserve to be happy. good luck
2006-12-26 11:30:45 · answer #7 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't doing anything wrong in life, right now. Leave make your
own life, be happy and your daughter will be safe with you
2006-12-26 11:25:04 · answer #8 · answered by wAnn2bEEfrEE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a tough one but i think you are doing the right thing staying with him for your daughter..if the way he's treating you is physically hurting you then definitly leave him..if its just emotionally then talk to him about it..?
2006-12-26 11:26:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you got to do, you got stuck with him and decided to have children with him too, now you are unhappy, leave if you must and deal with the consequences of it all
2006-12-26 11:44:33 · answer #10 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋