2006-12-26 11:19:17 · 11 answers · asked by Ashley 3 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Unrequited love hurts the lover, and if the lover tries to express that love to their beloved and are rejected, it hurts them more than to live thinking there could be a chance. Expressing love to another person who accepts it, but doesn't truely love them can take advantage of the lover's feelings to get whatever they want from them, than leave them. Physical love without spiritual love leads to a great honeymoon, but in the end the physical lust ends and both parties regress into a state of spitefulness and hatred, leading to an angry and painful end. Not very good at all.
2006-12-26 11:38:14 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Psychosis 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When two people meet there is always a dance. It is about power and taking advantage. Not just sexually but in all aspects of the relationship. There are no good answers.
In one aspect the first one to confess love loses, because the other can take advantage by with holding theirs, or think it too easy and not worth much. In another aspect they may not be telling the actual state of things, and trying to manipulate the other. On still another aspect, the other person may not think you even care, or perhaps not in a sexual way, and look elsewhere.
And those are just the easy things. The whole thing is stupid,
I hate the whole nonsense, and have never been good at it.
But in the 40 years since I became aware there was a dance, I have not seen it happen otherwise, and am frequently flabbergasted, and usually not in a good way.
2006-12-26 11:49:16 · answer #2 · answered by Dragon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Part A: Sadly, it can. It can cause high anxiety and make it emotionally difficult to handle a situation when someone has a serious crush on you when you are not interested. It can make you so afraid of hurting them by saying "no", that you end up being mean to them.
Part B: It is not wise to express love to a person who you do not know inside and out. If the other person displays to you that he cares about you, then you need to have honest-hearted talk time and ask, ask, ask questions to this person. Do you have the same goals & tastes? If you don't, what seems like a teeny tiny irritation now, will become a huge boil you can't pop. Pay attention to how he/she treats members of his/her family. That is a good indicator of how they will treat you.
2006-12-26 11:38:22 · answer #3 · answered by Its Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you fall head over heels for the person, poor your heart out, are given some hope of something coming out of the strange relationship, and then being completely shut down. That is when love hurts.
I don't know if it physically harms someone, but I got pretty depressed. I guess it's just wiser to wait until you REALLY, REALLY know the person to "confess your love". Basically...that whole philosophy of being friends before anything else is totally true.
2006-12-26 11:46:58 · answer #4 · answered by sk8rgrl02631 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the other person belongs to someone else, it causes way too much hurt on both sides to express the love.
2006-12-26 11:22:47 · answer #5 · answered by donnabellekc 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may be harmful if the person is in a position of authority or when there is a large age difference when one of the two is very young.
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2016-10-06 01:26:50 · answer #7 · answered by hobin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Define "love" and I'll tell you your answer.
The best definition of love is that you're willing to do what is best for the other person, sooooo... by that definition, the answer would be "no."
However, given the awful concepts and definitions of "love" out there, yeah, you can ruin someone by being too "nice" to them... I mean, who keeps feeding a person who is bedfast due to their weight? Who keeps a drunk or drug addict fed and sheltered while they keep doing their addiction? Sometimes, being loving should include doing things that are "mean."
2006-12-26 11:28:22 · answer #8 · answered by geek49203 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's not wise to express love (and I'm talking sexual love) to your family.
As for love harming??? Love doesn't hurt. People do....
It's that same saying as "guns do not kill people."
2006-12-26 11:22:19 · answer #9 · answered by The Mac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not wise to express love when that person is involved with somone else because it can hurt the person your saying it to and the person he or she is involved with and even yourself in that particular aspect
2006-12-26 11:23:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋