male exotic dancer...?

Question

i was hired as a male stripper a few weeks ago (not a club-but for private parties). i trained with some of the guys on dancing and have done a couple shows with other dancers present. I am now done training and will have my first solo gig this friday. it is a bachlorette party. i am told by the owner that some requests were made by the brides friends and that the bride will want to give me a blo**** in front of her friends. I am supposed to do it. I kinda like the idea, BUT i wanna know is this gonna be a regular thing? blo**** by girls or bachlorettes about to get married when i dance in the future? I love the idea of getting this all the time, does this stuff happen all the time? the other guys keep quiet, i dont know many of them, and really havent started trusting me yet. so no info from them--so girls who know--PLEASE TELL ME!!!!

Answer 1

I have heard of this happening..its usually not planned..it just happens....i dont think it will be an "all the time" thing..but it doesnt surprise me that it does happen...i know alot of female strippers do things on the side so it should not be that uncommon for men...

Answer 2

First, a comment to Basketcase88: As mentioned by others, it's the bachelorette thing. (Yes, that's spelled correctly, even tho Answers' spellchecker hasn't heard of the word.) More interestingly, Ethan has posted in 5 categories, and the only place he's getting answers as good as here is under Marriage/Divorce, where the only connection would be divorcee parties, if they exist. Go figure! Second, I think IndiaBombayRice has a good start on the answer, Ethan. Like others, he says you can't keep your career and strip, and he's absolutely right. I mean, would you believe even a sitcom where a guy's in your proposed situation and he ISN'T found out and forced to make a choice? So you have two options: 1. Do something else to show off your great bod, something respectable enough that when you're eventually and inevitably found out, it won't hurt your career. That would presumably be PG-rated modeling, done under another name to indicate respect for your profession. (It doesn't make any sense that using another name matters, but I think your bosses would all agree it does.) 2. If that's not going to float your boat the way stripping does (and I can't imagine it would compare), or if your career won't even stand modeling: Consider dumping that and supporting yourself as a stripper. It's certainly a major income cut, particularly at first, but if you also adjust your spending, and get professional advice on investing, you might actually be financially okay by the time you age out. (If you don't mind going gay-for-pay, stripping for guys, you might be able to keep going for years longer; many of us have a daddy/bear fetish that I don't think str8 women share.) Before you go for option 2, however, you ought to get professional advice on how good you really are, how much you can make immediately and potentially, maybe take dance lessons to improve your act (up to the point where it won't improve your take any further), get liposuction to achieve incredible abs instead of a merely good set, and whatever else goes into being a truly bombshell stripper. For one thing, you'll probably have to consider relocating and/or going on the road a lot. Afterthought: You don't say what your professional career is. There MAY be an Option 3. Or I may be fantasizing; you'll know better than I do, Ethan. Say you're a lawyer, you *could* set up independent, so that you don't have any bosses but your clients. In that case, somewhere in my office I'd keep a comparatively small pic of myself at the thong-only stage. That way, every potential client is eventually going to ask about it, you tell them that you're a part-time stripper, and they either decide to retain you or not, with full disclosure (you should pardon the phrase). And some of them will ask for your other business card! On the other end, it wouldn't hurt to offer a strip as "Ethan, the Lusty Lawyer (and He Really Is One)," starting from a full 3-piece suit with a briefcase--which you'd later pick up and skin out of your thong behind. Make sure you have some of your lawyer cards in the briefcase. (Incidentally, the suit-&-tie thing is another gay-guy fetish.)

Answer 3

Be careful of where these "private" parties will be . If it is in a business in a private area you still could be busted for indecent exposure. Also you might make sure of the ages of those attending by asking the host. Other than that you'll have as much fun as they will.But don't forget that you are supposed to be a professional and let it get too far out of hand. ALWAYS leave them wanting more.

Answer 4

well I will tell you what you are the first possibly "straight" male dancer I have heard of. is it normal for this type of NONSENSE to go on ----only if the bride to be and her bridesmaids have no respect for themselves, let alone the bride have any respect for the future groom..........dont expect this type of thing to happen all the time. Plus you obiviously do not have ANY RESPECT for yourself if you allow this to take place.

Answer 5

Can't say it's normal. Been to a few bachelorette parties where there were strippers ... never seen that happen.

Answer 6

I never been in a party like that, sorry I can't help you. But aslong as you are ok with it go for it.

Answer 7

I have never seen this at any of hte parties I have been to.

Answer 8

i dont knwo but i would sure love to know the answer.....i bet you would like that, what guy wouldnt...but geez, woman can be just as sleezy as men i guess

Answer 9

where the hell do i sign up lol
i wanna be stripper too

Answer 10

ask the guy's who trained you