I know this guy who has been married four times and is about to divorce his fourth wife who he is separated from and is with someone else and letting her live with him. She is sexing him good because I can hear him screaming from their apartment. She is much younger than him and he is jealous of her but she is in law school and I do not think that she will marry him because she has never been married b4 and complains about him having obsessive compulsive cleaning disorder. Why does this guy marry so much?
2006-12-26 10:26:29 · 8 answers · asked by starsmoonis 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have a friend like this. Actually, at one point, I was almost in the girls place. But then I thought about it. What makes me different from wives 1-3? I was a lot younger than him and I think that is why he was attracted to me.
Basically he needed someone who he thought would be there for him. That is what I was, when he was near me. He lives far away and expected me to move. I was not willing to. We are friends, that is all we will ever be.
These guys just need a woman around them. Obviously the chances of him staying with wife number 4 is very slim.
2006-12-26 11:14:57 · answer #1 · answered by mydds07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he hasn't found real love, he maybe has only married because he"thought" he was in love . Some people has problems in finding what they want in a mate, like maybe a gal wants to have a man like dear ol' dad, or a guy wants a mommy figure. But then again he may have a deal with he can only live someone for so long and gets bored with the mate and feels a need to move on. And a guy that cleans too much needs counsiling by a professional. I have been married 3 times, and I have major reasons why I divorced and remarried, like 1st one ,was married for 4 years, he was a drunk and he beat me and our kids, then met Mr.2 and we was married for 3 years and was doing great then I got a job and got a lil' babysitter and he became to mess with her and I knew it so we divorced ,and then Mr.3 became crazy on me, followed me from room to room, and one day threaten me and my kids, by saying he was going to shoot us while we slept, so I got rid of him fast. I really loved my 2 hubby, and we have gotten back together (not married) and we have moved on past what had happened ,we are happy now. We just had to grow up and talk and find trust again, which was hard and will always be a hard thing to do, but maybe that guy needs to grow up some before he goed dum-diddy-dum again.
2006-12-26 18:39:01 · answer #2 · answered by ladylily29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becasue he is a child and does not know what real marriage is. He needs to stop marrying people just for sex and just tdate them if that's all that he wants.
Marriage is a sared bond between to people to share a life together, not hey our sex is good lets file some paperwork to keep you from f&cking anyone else.
2006-12-26 18:29:51 · answer #3 · answered by cisco_cantu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is insecure. He feels better having a woman in his life,so he keeps one at any cost. Marriage is not something to be taken lightly,the commitment is meant to last a lifetime.
2006-12-26 18:30:07 · answer #4 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you care if he is married 7 times life is to short to be with some one that makes you sad if he is happy be happy for him
2006-12-26 18:36:09 · answer #5 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even more to the point, why do women keep marrying him
after knowing his past history...
2006-12-26 18:49:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
#! he is a damn fool. #2 he gets bored really easy with just one person, #3 he thinks he needs someone younger to make him feel younger. He is just plain FOOLISH.
2006-12-26 18:34:06 · answer #7 · answered by nickle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care? If he is happy with who he is with then good for them.
Unless you like this girl?
2006-12-26 18:36:19 · answer #8 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋