I have a friend who is just socially weird. She has friends and is very social and likes attention, but she is WEIRD. She is loud, obnoxious, says the strangest things, I'm embarrased to hang out with her and although she doesn't use drugs, she acts so weird, sometimes i wonder haha... my mom even acts, what's wrong with her? she is nice and friendly, but OVER DOET IT, all the time. she trie so hard. she use to be one ofmy best friends in junior high, now I am in college and still claims that we are BEST FRIENDS FOREVER! she is annoying me. I can just ignore her, but she hasn't done anything particurly bad to me, but she is just not my best friend. we are totally different now. should i just be friendly and hang out with her when she invite me over? make excuses to not see her? ir just be nice and do not take her too seriously? i just want to hear your opinions. thanks!!
2006-12-26 10:09:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Maybe you can make new friends but still keep her in your life as well...there's enough love to go around. As you get older you'll probably value her a lot more as people drop out of your life like flies, because life becomes more complicated. True friends are really rare and she sounds very sweet, no matter how zany she might be! It's kind of funny if you hear about it from here. Someday you two might look back on how silly she sometimes is and laugh. In the meantime keep doing what you enjoy but I wouldn't cut her out completely; of course that's up to you.
2006-12-26 10:13:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly it depends on the type of person she is but I am sure you are the best judge of that. If she is clingy then the best way is to ignore her until she goes away. If she is obsessive the same would work for that but if she is a good person that is worth keeping around then you may just wanna have a talk with her. The best trick I learned to talk to difficult people is to put it in the 3rd person and say I have a problem i.e "I have a problem with this person she has these quirks witch are hard to deal with and I was wondering what your advice is...." Then you continue. People love to solve problems so she may come up with an idea for you.
2006-12-26 10:21:53 · answer #2 · answered by kArMaRiFiC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing to do is talk to her about it. You can tell her that you haven't been the greatest friend to her because you are ashame to be seen with her. Tell her that you've changed and are sometimes annoyed by her "foolishness".
2006-12-26 10:14:46 · answer #3 · answered by Lotii 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she's that "weird" to you now, think it over before you do ANYTHING. If you still believe, after thinking about it, that she makes you uncomfortable, drop her. Life's too short, and you'll meet new friends. Good luck!
2006-12-26 10:15:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people change thats all, if you dont want to hang out with her dont!
if you find her annoying and weird whats the oint of the friendship? you're supposed to respect and love your friends.
just put her down as an aquaintance and move on
2006-12-26 10:13:04 · answer #5 · answered by mowgligurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how do you define friend? maybe your just as weird and dont even know it. we all cant be perfect oh by the way let her know your embarrased to be around her. get a grip its not that bad or you would not be calling her your friend.
2006-12-26 10:16:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to sit her down and tell her the truth...it may hurt her to tell her the truth but atleast she will know that she has to back off && not be so clingy...it`s probably better in the long run anyway...b/c idk if ur the type of person to explode once you reach a point...but if she irritates you to the point where you explode she might be like all what did i do
2006-12-26 10:14:19 · answer #7 · answered by xxgoincrazy313xx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a friend, you should tell her how you feel about her behavior but you should do it in a nice way that she doesn't feel offended. Tell her that you care for her because she is your friend. Be honest with your feelings.
2006-12-26 10:20:16 · answer #8 · answered by popsantos143 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about what's bothering you - there's a reason you were friends to begin with. Its very possible that you may have outgrown her..
2006-12-26 10:13:00 · answer #9 · answered by moque75 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short to dance with ugly people.... and I don't mean ugly on the outside...
2006-12-26 10:11:44 · answer #10 · answered by The ReDesign Diva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋