I just broke up with my friend...completely. I took her out of my life and everything. No more phone calls, no more messages, nothing. We were going out for for 1 yr and 5 months and after I moved to go to college, things went downhill. I realized that the trust between us wasn't that strong. Then on our one yr & 5 month anniv. She tells me she wants a break. A week later, I broke it off. From there we were just seeing each other, acting like we were still together. On Christmas, I told her that I don't want her in my life. Its because I couldn't trust her. Now I feel so empty. I'm in so much pain. I don't understand but at the same time I do. How do I get over this?
2006-12-26 10:04:40 · 6 answers · asked by OutlawAdidas 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know it sounds like empty words but actually it is a fact that 'time heals all wounds' ; No matter how lonely and miserable you feel , deep down you know you made the right decision, and in the long run it is the best for you and your future .Get busy and make new friends. Keep it light , make no fast attachments to get over the pain you feel now. On the re-bound, that is what it is called . Also, see to it that you get the very best grades you can possibly get .That'll take up your time plenty . Say 'no' sometimes to temptation when other people want to drag you along . Go to the library instead and see what is going on there. You might even find a like-soul just like yourself .
Good luck. You will be ever so thankful later .
2006-12-26 10:17:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you threw this onto yourself. When she wanted break was it from something you had done? Had been suspicious of her and not make her feel comfortable, I believe reason you stop trusting her was perhaps from you going college.. far away from her so you could not keep you eye on her all the time causing you to no longer trust her. If she reacted very sadly from this you know you have made mistake. You maybe in pain because you know what you did was not completely fair to her and perhaps you are guilty for making accusations? Think it over man, maybe not ever seeing her again is not what you really want, if it is.. time will heal everything
2006-12-26 18:12:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to feel horrible after a break-up. It just takes a while to get over it. Try to stay strong and not go back to her. Keep busy with friends. When you least expect it, you'll meet someone else and be happy again.
2006-12-26 18:09:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it sounds cliche, but time heals all wounds. She's been a part of your life for so long and you're just afraid to be alone for fear of being alone. Does that make sense? You will be fine. Immerse yourself in something you enjoy such as a hobby or project that you have been neglecting.
2006-12-26 18:11:41 · answer #4 · answered by margarita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time is the only way you will heal from the pain. right now I am sure it feels like you will feel like this forever, but trust me it will pass and life will be better. long distance relationships (especially in college) never really work out.
2006-12-26 18:44:39 · answer #5 · answered by ohiomontana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand what ur going through , it s pretty normal. roght now it best to kick it by urself for some time like ur in college know hit the books to take ur mind off her. and then u can just u know chill with ur guy friends enjoy the freedom then wait for the right girl to come ur way . but dont rus h it
2006-12-26 18:12:30 · answer #6 · answered by i am a very sweet n honest girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋