Do i have too look great to wear what i do?

Question

My mom tells me that i dont look right in that...Or go change and let your sister wear that she'll look great!!
But i think i look fine in it, like all my friends comment me on how i look good, or i should wear that more. Stuff like that..But i dont like it when my mom tells me that my sisters a model waiting to break out. Like i give a ****...Oh sorry but Should i be able to wear what i want.. It was my 7th grade dance and my sisters 6th...My mom took my dress and made her wear it..So i had to wear hers..I looked really bed..I mean..Like my date wouldnt want to stand next to me.. =(
about me
Im 15
5'3
102 lbs. ( i dont starv. meself)
Verry slow... lol (im not retarded im just slow)
And my name is Jesi and im in 8th grade!
I try to be punk =)
ME!!! ( sorry about my drama.. =( but thanks for helping)
Go here to see me!!
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Answer 1

You look fine it that. I think your dogs eyes look cool.

Answer 2

Your mom is treating you and your sister like barbie dolls! You are 15, almost in high school (I'm also in 8th), and you aren't allowed to dress yourself. You should really have your own freedom of expression, and you should be allowed to wear your own clothes. If you truthfully don't look good in something, there isn't any reason for not trying on other things, but you should have the decision of what you want to wear.

Also, your mom shouldn't be saying your sister's gonna be a model. Your sister should have choice in that. So it sounds liek your mom needs to let go a bit, and let you and your sister be free thinkers.

Answer 3

Worple is right. You should privately talk to your mom. Explain that you feel like your sister is being compared to you and she's better. Say it casually, so you don't worry your mom and if your mom is shocked and saying she doesn't buy that, tell her it's true. A lot of those things you just told us should be told to her as hard as it might be. You want to be honest, happy, and you want to get a point through to your mom - so be firm but not too much!

Answer 4

Be hygienic. Take a tub as quickly as an afternoon, ideally the morning because of the fact it may wake you up and be cope with, especially regardless of if it somewhat is cool. Wash your hair a minimum of another day. additionally, locate moisturizing shampoos and conditioners too in case you have dry hair. Get a stunning haircut. All distinctive lengths you may get. in case you come again to a determination to get a quick haircut don't get a blunt boys decrease, in case you desire to look female. Wispy and flipped out or chunky with shade. long hair types stay away from the long hair and grown out bangs. attempt a edge swept layer look. Ask your hairstylist what could be appropriate for you. no longer something confusing to maintain. Moisturizing your dermis is amazingly important, it has the purpose of preserving your dermis soft. additionally a sturdy face wash to apply each and every morning could be suitable. in case you could positioned on a small quantity of make up positioned on it on particular events which includes going to a complex eating place, or an end of the 12 months dance. basically a small quantity of pastel colored eye shadow and a few lip gloss, and in line with threat some mascara would be plenty positioned on beautiful outfits. Ditch the grungy denims and over sized sweater. %. out a advantageous suitable each and every as quickly as in awhile or some outfitted denims. outfitted outfits will make you look greater effective. Have a minimum of one beautiful pair of footwear. some thing to gown all of it up. regardless of if it somewhat is a boot, a sandal, a wedge, you %. it! yet make beneficial it somewhat is suitable for college. attempt fairly sunshine physique spray. do no longer positioned on some thing too overpowering, nonetheless. advantageous smelling cleansing soap grants of a physique spray heady scent too. Smile lots. a grin is a brilliant accesory!

Answer 5

You look adorable! Forget what your mom says ('tho I know it's hurtful!). If you think you look good in something, and it makes you happy, then wear it! She should not compare you and your sister. You are two different and unique people.

Keep a little voice in your head going that says," Jesi is beautiful and not dumb." Listen to that little voice whenever you find yourself having doubts!!

Answer 6

I think your mom's got a problem sorry if that hurts but i feel bad that she treats you that way,you look really nice(your dog too) but don't let your mom get to you. i think she's got a fantasy about your sister being a model and she's trying to let it out so just wear what you feel great in and is fabulous on you.you look great keep it up.have fun

Answer 7

OMG you are cute! Don't let anybody else let you believe something else. You really are pretty, plus, you are what you project to others, ok? About your mom, could it be that she thinks your sis looks better cause she looks like your dad ( ore
even like mom when she was young) I wonder....

Answer 8

It all comes down to self esteem. If you feel like you look great, hey, you look great! But don't let the opinions of other people make you feel bad about your choices.

Answer 9

if your mom really acts like that then she dosent deserve to be your mom cause she should not say you look bad in something andd then tell you to let your sister to wair what you have on you need to try to talk to her or something!
thats what id do!

Answer 10

I think it is illegal for most people to answer that. But in a none sexually way you are very pretty for an 8th grader dont listen to your mama

Answer 11

Don't worry about what your mom says, wear what makes YOU feel comfortable and good. That upsets me that your mom does that, don't let it get to you!!!!!