i need to know how do i know if its the best for me to be with her or should i leave her. Im for shure that she doesnt love her husband but find that out for shure is not a chance that im gonna take
2006-12-26 09:54:03 · 15 answers · asked by isaías118 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
run away. this situation is nothing but drama and trouble
2006-12-26 09:55:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she is married with or without a child she has no right going after anyone but her husband. If l was you l would head for the hills because when her husband finds out l can assure you that she will turn the tables on you and tell him that it was you who did all the chasing. Don't be silly enough to fall for her and her lying, cheating ways. She is obviously not a nice person and even if you did get with her believe me she would get bored with you and cheat on you also. Start thinking with your big head and stop listening to your little head as it will surely only cause you grief. Don't even go there !! Good luck.
2006-12-26 10:05:00 · answer #2 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is married, keep looking, you don't need the hassle. It is not worth it. It doesn't matter if she loves him or not. Tell her to get divorced, then you will consider to date her. If you don't do this then start buying presents for your step child. Are you sure you want a kid before you get married? Yes everyone makes a mistake and marriage sometimes changes. That is fine but only after the marriage is over and she is gone. You don't want to wake up someday and have her blame you, that she left her husband with something goes wrong. So be careful. Make sure she is out of the marriage before you move forward.
2006-12-26 10:03:12 · answer #3 · answered by NIck N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know whether you are married or not, and i also dont know if the lady you are talking about is having a living spouse. if answer to anyone of the above is yes. then its good for you to stay away with the lady. if her husband is living she should have taken divorce and you should also do the same if your wife is living. or else you could end up behind bars. our law is very clear on this point. so please do consult an expert in this field before going further in this matter. my suggestion is you can always have a good and healthy relationship with the lady and there wont be any problem. Good luck
2006-12-26 09:59:12 · answer #4 · answered by Advocate Bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she belongs to another man than u need to get away from her as fast as u can. doesn't mater what she tells u, in regard to loving her husband or not. u can cause yourself alot of grief, with a broken heart, or when her husband finds out and comes looking for u. so please don't fall for her, she will drag u down and make your life a living hell. if she cheats on her husband, and u happen to marry her, how long do u think it will take her to start treating u the same way. if u were the husband how would u feel.
2006-12-26 09:59:35 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way, she has to be alone, no jumping trains, it doesn't work. There are scores of people in the world who seem to be magnets for calamity. They live their lives jumping from one difficult situation to the next, surrounded by unstable individuals. Some believe themselves victims of fate and decry a universe they regard as malevolent. Others view their chaotic circumstances as just punishments for some failing within. Yet, in truth, neither group has been fated or consigned to suffer. They are likely unconsciously drawing drama into their lives, attracting catastrophe through their choices, attitudes, and patterns of thought. Drama, however disastrous, can be exciting and stimulating. But the thrill of pandemonium eventually begins to frustrate the soul and drain the energy of all who embrace it. To halt this process, we must understand the root of our drama addiction, be aware of our reactions, and be willing to accept that a serene, joyful life need not be a boring one. Many people, so used to living in the dramatic world they create, feel uncomfortable when confronted with the prospect of a lifetime of peace and contentment. The drama in their lives serves multiple purposes. Upset causes excitement, prompting the body to manufacture adrenaline, which produces a pleasurable surge of energy. For those seeking affection in the form of sympathy, drama forms the basis of their identity as a victim. And when drama is familial, many people believe they can avoid abandonment by continuing to play a key role in the established family dynamic. The addiction to drama is fed by the intensity of the feelings evoked during bouts of conflict, periods of uncertainty, and upheaval.
Understanding where the subconscious need for drama stems from is the key to addressing it effectively. Journaling can help you transfer this need from your mind onto a benign piece of paper. After repeated writing sessions, your feelings regarding the mayhem, hurt feelings, and confusion often associated with drama become clear. When you confront your emotional response to drama and the purpose it serves in your life, you can reject it. Each time you consciously choose not to take part in dramatic situations or associate with dramatic people, you create space in your inner being that is filled with a calm and tranquil stillness and becomes an asset in your quest to lead a more centered life
2006-12-26 10:07:51 · answer #6 · answered by Bob B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should wait till she leaves her husband, she will if she doesn't love him anymore and just because she fell for you doesn't necessary make her a cheater only she knows the reasons for doing this but she has to take action and get rid of the other person if she truly feels for you. and if you really care you will wait. sometimes things happen for a reason. good luck and I hope everything works for you.
2006-12-26 10:24:15 · answer #7 · answered by Itza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why ask for trouble, what is she trying to do use you? C'mon have more brains than that, find yourself the REAL LOVE. You deserve all the best in what path you choose. Don't short change yourself in being with a women that is married c'mon. Find your own Cindrella.
2006-12-26 10:02:19 · answer #8 · answered by Emily L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she would leave her husband for you then she would leave you for someone else so leave her alone and find one that is not married
2006-12-26 10:03:05 · answer #9 · answered by roy40371 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to head for the hills......run as fast as you can.....get away from the DRAMA
2006-12-26 09:57:41 · answer #10 · answered by Nuts 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋