Two of my friends seem to have been talkin about me behind my back...But one of them admits that he talks about me. The other one is always lieing to me and when I told my other friend, he just told me that I was being snappy and we got in this huge fight. Well another friend wrote him on myspace a really mean message and he told me that he didn't want to be my friend anymore. But the next day he changed his mind and wanted to be friends again.
2006-12-26 09:37:52 · 18 answers · asked by Breezie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i think you should forgive him because you don't know what the message was and if he said that he didn't want to be your friend then changes his mind and wants to be your friends and then he is all cool than there is something wrong trust me i used to have alot of friends until they strat saying things and then i knew that if they are saying things about or something that will get me mad then they are not my friend(s)!! Well hope every thing that go(s) well hope to hear from you!!!
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2006-12-26 09:49:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the three of you have been friends for a while, then i think that you should forgive them for their mistakes. we all make wrong decisions sometimes. but friendship is worth more in the long-run than being mad over something as small as two of your friends talking about you. you never know, they may have been discussing a way to help you with a problem your having, or a way to surprise you on your next birthday. forgive them and remain friends. also talk to them and tell them how you felt, maybe they didn't realize they would hurt you.
2006-12-26 17:43:03 · answer #2 · answered by beaker8580 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you should retire both of these friends for good. Life is too short to spend time going back and forth between these two. Find some new friends and start doing fun things instead of wasting time working out your problems between these two on my space. You could be out having a great time.
2006-12-26 18:00:23 · answer #3 · answered by Wanderella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like these 2 friends are playing games with your emotions. You need to find some true friends, ones that don't talk behind your back and won't give up on your friendship so easily.
2006-12-26 17:57:23 · answer #4 · answered by Dimples 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st how old are you guys b/c all this sound slike thsi is petty.. Anyone that can't be a friend enough to tell you sumthing to ur face isn't really a friend any how.. I say you all go hang ouy and at the end of the night wild them out and tell them how u feel and then change your number and move on u can prob do better.
2006-12-26 17:41:22 · answer #5 · answered by HoneyBun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breezie, You will learn some day that no matter where you go or what you do, you will not please everyone. There will always be people that talk behind your back no matter what age you are and it stinks..but... Its just a thing you have to deal with. I would say if they are really good friends then forgive them...otherwise move on. Its all up to you.
2006-12-26 17:42:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you still in High School??? This all sounds very immature. True friends never talk about you behind your back, thaey say it to your face! Don't sweat them, I'm sure you have plenty of other more worthy friends
2006-12-26 17:51:10 · answer #7 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember once telling a friend ( when I was young) that another friend was talking trash about her. Instead of listening she said
"I don't want to hear it." Basically people gossip just don't let it into your life. Be friends with everyone and be a role model of not listening to gossiping. You will find yourself happier.
2006-12-26 17:55:13 · answer #8 · answered by jewelsthomas 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These people are NOT YOUR FRIENDS.
Give yourself permission and forgiveness to leave them behind and find new friends.
Get off my space. What you do not know cannot hurt you. Do not read what they have to say.
If these were someone Else's friends, you would probably tell them to dump them. And that is what you should do.
2006-12-26 17:50:03 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should absolutely forgive your friends. The kind of things you are describing are not the type of things that should keep you apart. Friendships are too precious to be discarded so lightly.
2006-12-26 17:41:54 · answer #10 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋