We were together for two years. After she broke it off she turned nasty. She would flaunt the fact that she has a new boyfriend. Make comments about me to friends. It's been several months and I haven't had anything to do with her. I think back about how she was when we were together. Who is this new person? Why did she change so much for the worse? She is with someone new but she goes out of her way to tell mutual friends how great her new guy is. They tell me that it's not just ordinary talk she won't shut up about it.
2006-12-26 07:51:47 · 13 answers · asked by forgot my real name 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she made a mistake in breaking it off with you and she regrets it and is testing the waters to see if you are still pining for her OR she's a psychopath who needs to be admitted.
2006-12-26 07:58:00 · answer #1 · answered by hjfr27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is trying to justify the breakup and convince everyone that she is better off and happier now. It will cool down once the smoke clears. You need to move on and just have your own fun and not worry about her. If that is the kind of person she really is, be thankful that she is someone else's problem now.
2006-12-26 08:01:10 · answer #2 · answered by PDH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her keep talking! The nice thing about people like her is that they ALWAYS show what an insipid person they really are, there is definately no hiding it. And whatever you do, don't stoop to her level. I'd have the attitude "Well, things just didn't work out...we both made mistakes and I just want to move on now."
2006-12-26 07:56:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had one of them once. They are bitter that it is over. I almost feel sorry for the new guy. Don't pay any attention to her. Be the bigger person. She is just trying to do something different than what she has for the time you were together. She is also trying to get under your skin...Don't Let Her! Stay strong buddy.
2006-12-26 08:06:12 · answer #4 · answered by dwarner33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, she is one of those people, that feels proud that she got to dumb someone, and she feels the need to brag about it. She probably feels so hot like if she can have anyone. One of those heartless bitches, just blow her off, there is no need to worry about what a person like that says or does.
2006-12-26 08:13:32 · answer #5 · answered by FairyNice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She misses what she had with you, and she is trying to cover it up with her new boyfriend. She doesn't want you to find out that she secretly still wants to be with you, and she knows it won't happen..so she is acting this way. She keeps talking about her boyfriend not to impress others..but herself because she misses what she had before and not getting now. She misses you not giving her attention and liking her anymore.
2006-12-26 08:05:34 · answer #6 · answered by Samster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you experience like the gossip will keep you from having pleasant associates then possibly you should bypass. If which couldn't an option then be more desirable pleasant to the associates and then little through little tell them your fringe of the tale.
2016-10-16 21:42:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's who she always was, and u just failed to see it.she is trying to hurt u, obviously it makes her feel bigger when she talks about u and tells lies, she could be saying all this to impress her new boyfriend, just forget her, her ugly opinion of u isn't who u really are, and u know it. she was always this person and u were so much in love u didn't see it.
2006-12-26 07:57:41 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably realized she ****** up and is trying to tell her self she didn't...If that isn't it all I can think of is that she is a ***** and something turned her into it..The way that she is acting you shouldn't even be worring about this...Find someone to worry about that is worth your time!!
2006-12-26 07:56:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps your friends need to stop hanging around her - and/or they definitely to stop telling you what she tells them. Your friends are the real problem - they should respect you enough not to drag you through the mud.
2006-12-26 08:00:34 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋