2006-12-26 07:50:13 · 22 answers · asked by Chichiri 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Does it?
Is the reverse then also true? Does every relationship that starts out WRONG turn out right????
A friend who was having a lot of difficulties with other people once told me:
"I suddenly noticed that there was one thing in common in all these different bad situations I was having with all these different people. The common thing was ME."
Whaccha think???
2006-12-26 07:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by Rani 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well there isn't really an answer to you question maybe you are putting to much pressure on yourself to do the right thing and before you set out on a relationship your already thinking it will go wrong don't worry everyone feels like that, you just have to move on and not dwell on it to much, relationships do better with communication so talk over any problems that you have with that person and deal with them quick and you will find it easier in time i hope things work out for you and all the best
2006-12-26 07:58:24 · answer #2 · answered by upyafartpipe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be looking for the same type of person. Usually most relationships start out sweet, then you get to know and understand the other person, and it's over.
2006-12-26 08:02:48 · answer #3 · answered by c s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be attracting the same type of person with similar personalities. It happens to almost everyone. There is something about you that is attracting this certain kind of person. Look inside of yourself and try to figure out what it is about you that puts you in this situation over and over. If you can change that, then you will change the outcome of future relationships
2006-12-26 07:54:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to life,brother.
That's just the way it is.
ALL relationships (of a personal nature) start off right,otherwise they wouldn't start off period!
Then ya'll get to know each other...that's when things go wrong.!
Maybe one of you tells the other about something that REALLY turns the other on! That could be a deal-breaker!
It's one thing to tell a girl that you like the pig-tails-and-knee-socks-look...she might be into that.But when she finds out that YOU'RE the one that puts on the school-girl outfit....She might say "hmmmmm."
Or maybe she likes anal sex....but you don't find out until later that SHE'S the one who wants to be the "pitcher"...that might make you say "Hmmmmmmm."
Or maybe she was just testing you,and found out that you like the idea of being the "catcher"....she might be inclined to leave.
Or maybe.....just maybe....you might just need nothing more than grooming tips.
Ask the next gal that dusts you.She might tell you what the problem is.
2006-12-26 08:05:44 · answer #5 · answered by Danny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion.
Review each of your relationships what happen when they went bad?
Maybe it’s something you’re doing.
Maybe you’re picking the wrong girl
Are you breaking it off any why?
Are they breaking it off and why?
What ever the problem is you need to figure it out and learn so you don’t make the same mistakes. If you have to call up your ex’s ask them where you went wrong. If they dumped you of course.
2006-12-26 08:01:36 · answer #6 · answered by asgrafxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships to start out with are new and fun and easy to become a part of. The secret is to keep them that way witch is hard to do.Don't feel bad it takes two for it to work so you are not in the boat alone.
2006-12-26 07:53:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all this is not true. You have yourself.
Be the person you are looking for and then the right person will present themself. It is hard to make someone happy if you yourself are not satisfied with who you are.
Expect trouble, but deal with disappointments with the expectation of a win-win and you will find more happieness in others.
2006-12-26 07:52:56 · answer #8 · answered by N T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it, hon. Some people have to date many toads before they find the one to marry which means that many, many relationships didn't work. Have faith. One of these days, when you least expect it, you'll find the right person for you.
2006-12-26 08:00:33 · answer #9 · answered by Judith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because every new relationship is always good at first..until people become comfortable enough to show their bad sides.
2006-12-26 07:52:04 · answer #10 · answered by Jenniphur 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋