2006-12-26 07:01:57 · 4 answers · asked by WORRIED 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
maybe that is what they want. they may never be interested in boys talk to them and ask why and what they are feeling when this is going on
2006-12-26 07:06:53 · answer #1 · answered by lmw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They may just be curious. They may just be experimenting, which is common for a teenager. Or they may decide to be lesbians, and not care whether or not boys will never be a part of their lives.
There is no way of knowing. But one thing you CAN know, is that you can't, and shouldn't, stop it. If you came on here and asked "how can I keep my teenager from being promiscuous?" and been concerned about boys OR girls, I would say right on. But the fact that this is strictly a concern about whether or not this girl will be a lesbian is kind of petty in today's age.
If you know anything about teenagers, you will know that trying to FORCE her to do or not do anything will only get you alot of trouble and a more determined teenageer. Talk to her calmly about your concerns, open up the lines of communication, and be there when she wants to talk. If she is afraid to do that with you for fear of punishment or criticism then it will only compound the problem. She is probably very confused herself, and whatever decision she comes to as she becomes an adult about her sexuality will be far better for her, and your relationship with her, if you can be her support system, her sounding board, and her advisor-not a dictator! After all-a teenager is a person who will be legally and morally free to make their own decisions and choices soon-without the permission or approval of their parents. Our jobs as their parents are to try to guide them, to be there when they need us, in the hope that they are happy people capable of doing the right thing. Not to try to instill our own beliefs or sterotypes in them so that they don't make us look bad.
2006-12-26 07:21:34 · answer #2 · answered by dragonlady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU CAN'T STOP THEM UNLESS YOU WANT TO GUARD HER 24 HOURS A DAY. TEENAGERS ARE GOING TO DO WHAT THEY WANT TO DO. THE ONLY THING WE CAN DO AS PARENTS IS TRY TO GUIDE THEM IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION AND HOPE THEY MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICES. EXPERIMENTING AND CURIOSITY IS ALL PART OF GROWING UP. I KNOW LOTS OF GIRLS THAT ARE VERY STRAIGHT BUT WILL TELL YOU AT ONE TIME THEY EXPERIMENTED W/OTHER WOMEN. ASK, YOU'LL BE SUPRISED AT SOME OF THE WOMEN WHO HAVE EXPERIMENTED W/OTHER WOMEN.
2006-12-26 07:46:01 · answer #3 · answered by Jerry C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should try to stop them. She may just be curious, and will get over this. Or she may be gay, and if she is, you are going to permanently damage your relationship with her. Just except her, she is who she is.
2006-12-26 07:51:14 · answer #4 · answered by proudmama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋