I have this ex firend of mine who is basically making fun of me and the way I like a new guy every week. I have been broken up with by the guy who I liked a lot and I have been having trouble lately. Its ok for her to ramble on and on about how her exboyfriend doesnt love her and how he has a new girl and everything but its not ok for me to talk about my guys. All my other friends have already said its ok because they know what I am going through. I already cut her out of my life. She is dating my exboyfriend supposidly and its making me very mad. I have been in love with the guy I like for fifteen years and I love him but it hurts me when this girl makes accusations and starts saying stuff about me on Yahoo. What do you think I should do? I have already talked to my boy about it. Thanks in advance for your help. The guy she is supposidly dating is my exboyfriend but I dont have feelings for him. I like the guy I have liked for fifteen years which is a very long time to like him.
2006-12-26 06:56:51 · 9 answers · asked by IloveDr.Will K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
15 yrs is a long time to like a guy but your friend is not being a very good friend i think you should tell her that she needs to stop writting things about you.Cause if it hurts you you should tell her prents about it.And i know how it feels to have a best friend that goes out with ur ex and it hurts even though you dont have feelings for him anymore.And i would never do that to my friends.And i dont think you should be her friend unless she truely changes her act!
2006-12-26 07:03:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to have already done the right thing so far. You have cut her out of your life. If she is dating your ex, who by your own words, you have no feelings for then let it go for your own sake.
Why have you not done anything about the guy you have liked for 15 years? Is there any possibility there or is he taken? If he is I suggest you move on and find someone who can appreciate you for the person you are and a guy that you can appreciate as well. If the guy is available then go for it if he says no or puts you off or worse then just move on as above. Stop caring so much about what others say or think and live your life, but always remember to respect others and treat everyone fairly as you seem to be doing already ...in other words don't let the jerks change you 'cause then they win.
2006-12-26 07:08:51 · answer #2 · answered by It's been awhile 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok.... first of all, with a friend like that who needs enemys? act like you dont care, because if you show any emotion she'll know that she hurt you. I think she's jealous because you talk to a lot of guys. As far as your exboyfriend thing......... she got YOUR leftovers, make her aware of that!. Since she's writing things on yahoo about you, create another account and ask her why is she wasting her time writitng things about you, when she could be spending time with her new guy!
2006-12-26 07:04:31 · answer #3 · answered by LC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if i had a friend date my ex boyfriend without asking me first i would be really mad. Well she is probably just doing that to get you mad so act like it doesn't bother you. And she will leave you alone.
2006-12-29 04:41:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With friends like that, you don't need enemies. Move on; forget about her and the ex. He is an ex for a reason. So is she. It seems that you have other friends that seem to be genuine with you. so continue hanging with them. As for dating; you are single. Just be careful.
2006-12-26 07:12:47 · answer #5 · answered by ricepat2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get a boy friend and make her mad if she has a boy friend ask him out and act like if u don't know her
2006-12-26 07:03:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the best thing to do is also the hardest.
Forget about them. You have other friends who aren't jerkoffs. You don't need them.
2006-12-26 07:00:24 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront this chick and tell her to keep your name out of her mouth. after you tell her how it is, ignore her, cut her out for good, then don't listen to what you hear, gossip isn't always true. don't listen to the gossip and just ignore her, your life will be a lot easier after that.
2006-12-26 07:14:20 · answer #8 · answered by ~karma~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl--- Don't worry about what other people think and say. Think about what your heart is saying. Your heart knows true friends.
FOLLOW YOUR HEART!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-26 07:01:52 · answer #9 · answered by da cool m1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋