So im bi and i louveeeeeeeee this girl and IM realllllly in love with this guy im still un comfortable with facing the fact that i have feelings for guys and girls so the whole gay thing with a boy is krrreepy 2 me so i feel uncomfortable sorta bein with him but its all good with the girl some would say just go out with the girl then but i like the guy more im confused what should I do and why do i feel so guilty after gay sex.
2006-12-26 06:18:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Do it ,enjoy it, forget it.
2006-12-26 06:21:30 · answer #1 · answered by burtbb0912 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, you shouldn't bounce back and forth from one to the other unless both parties know about it and accept it. You should be honest with the guy adn the girl. Let them both know you're bi-sexual. And that you have feelings for the both of them. Being bi-sexual is just like being homosexual and heterosexual. You can be in love with someone, and then find yourself having feelings for another. The bigger question is. Are you looking for committment or just sex?
2006-12-26 06:36:19 · answer #2 · answered by CartoonFreak1985 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like you care about the guy more then you should try to establish a relationship with him if possible. I know it sounds difficult because you have strong feelings for the girl but staying with her while having these feelings isn't good for the both of you. If it was the other way around I would tell you the same thing.
2006-12-26 06:22:51 · answer #3 · answered by retrodragonfly 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Feeling guilty could be because of the so call "normal life style".There is nothing wrong with being bi-sexual,gay,or anything.search you're true feelings,untill you are sure,But remember use protection when going with both sexs.
2006-12-26 06:26:16 · answer #4 · answered by half pint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel guilty because society has ingrained in you the ridiculous notion that same-sex relations are bad. It's the twinge of guilt that you think you're somehow a bad person - you aren't.
It will pass in time, just don't worry about a thing and do what feels right.
2006-12-26 06:25:12 · answer #5 · answered by Modern Jesus 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello =)
Your feelings of guilt and anxiety over your male-male relationship have a lot to do with how view yourself as a "man", and what you think you should be like, according to the traditional views of society... Basically, it's all nonsense.
At this juncture, I would encourage you to keep them both. In an ideal world you could have them both at the same time....in the same house, but we know this doesn't always work out right.....
Just follow your heart, and your penis, and you'll be just fine on this.....
Namaste, and Happy Holidays,
--Tom
2006-12-26 06:23:41 · answer #6 · answered by glassnegman 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Heres what i could do: ASK HIM OUT :D Ive asked out 3 men in all my years. 2 have asked out me (Im a senior in severe college btw) Out of those 3 men ive asked out 2 have pronounced definite. the only that declined, properly he made a sizable deal approximately it and that i became the warm subject remember for the day. even nonetheless it became basically an afternoon! some ppl get made relaxing of primary and you will never be attentive to if he likes you till you attempt :) provide it a flow
2016-10-28 10:00:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because it is wrong.
Read a Bible. The Book of Romans chapter 1 verses 21-28.
2006-12-26 06:32:45 · answer #8 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You feel that way because around you everybody feels that way.
Just get over it.Grow up already.
And if it grosses you out.then just don't do it.
But my gut says you will continue:did you tell the two that you are cheating them big time:you should te;ll them at least the truth:that is the least they deserve:don't you agree?
Suppose they cheat on you?
How would you feel then?
Confused you more:use your messenger and ill explain it to you perrsonally.Greetings:Rob.Mind you :it is 7 hours later here.
2006-12-26 06:53:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself you would get the best answer :)
Be with someone you are really like and feel more comfortable that is the one. I'm sure you would get the best - boy or girl :)
2006-12-26 06:33:56 · answer #10 · answered by Louis S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop!! think what your doing - if you see you're uncomfortable with your life - because you're doing something wrong or something that is not correct- if you're a girl you supposed to be with a man and viceversa, but this world is going down and down with in morality, so you decide where to go. but take the right path. seek Jesus
2006-12-26 07:30:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋