Any other women have this problem? How did you cope? It is seriously messing with my self esteem.
2006-12-26 06:05:50 · 6 answers · asked by lickonsumhonee 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
When I do ask he just says "your pregnant". Whatever that means.
2006-12-26 06:13:16 · update #1
My husband was the same way. I think he just felt weird having sex with me because he was worried he would hurt the baby. I told him he could not hurt her but he still worried. And it did make me feel terrible and like I was not doing it for him anymore. But I think its pretty normal. We did have sex once when I was about 36 weeks and it was awful. My stomach was in the way and he was trying to be gentle. Trust me its awkward and not at all enjoyable. And believe me once you have the baby he will be chasing you down to get with you.LOL!
2006-12-26 06:27:05 · answer #1 · answered by ktbblb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him. Many guys have difficulty with having sex with there pregnant GF or wives. Some just are not attracted while others are falsely concerned of hurting their baby. You need to discuss his reasons, he could just be freaking out sub-conciously about being a father too. Let him know how you feel. You need to work it out with him or nothing will be resolved. Until then use a vibrator and read plenty of romance novel and a soak in a hot bath. Good luck.
2006-12-26 14:10:26 · answer #2 · answered by Kat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it's his loss. Some men are frightened of hurting the baby, but as long as your Dr hasn't said not to then he is being a fool! Just sit him down, and tell him that you want to
http://www.askdrsears.com/html/1/T011308.asp
http://www.kidshealth.org/parent/pregnancy_newborn/pregnancy/sex_pregnancy.html
Congratulations on the baby, I wish you the best of luck and may your bed be rocking again soon ;)
2006-12-26 14:12:54 · answer #3 · answered by WaftyCrank 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you give him a real good B.J. .....or a hand job...so showing you have still got what he wants....if he is worried about hurting the baby its ok to have him lie behind you, with you on your side (of course....) that way the guy can't get 'in' fully.....and he can reach around and touch you at the front.......enjoy.....I was always mega frisky when pregnant...all those hormones...mmnnn.....good luck!!
2006-12-26 14:19:27 · answer #4 · answered by Susie Drew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find out his reasons. If he doesn't feel you a tractive than he is creep if he is afraid to hurt the baby than I am sure you can find a solution (aka position) to solve his problem
2006-12-26 14:09:33 · answer #5 · answered by blapath 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
roll on to the top; he'll be afraid to move. eventually he'll "get it" then your back on the schedule; now go try........(it's the holidays, after all)!
2006-12-26 14:10:00 · answer #6 · answered by djtzclark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋