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I lied about my step brother touching me because he was getting me in trouble.?
We go to the same school and I told some of his friends and my friends that my step brother was touching me but I was lying. I told my parents the same thing and wrote it in my diary incase they read it so that they would believe it. I posted it as my last question here. I lied because I am tired of him snitching on me. My parents told me I cant hang out at the closet (a place at school) and I do anyways. Well my stepbrother hangs out there too but he's allowed to because he's been hanging out there for a couple years. I dont think thats fair. I sshould be able to hang out where ever I want to at school. I finally told my parents I lied about my step brother. and now my parents wont let me go anywhere or do anything. My dad works and I heard my stepmom say she doesnt want to deal with me. Should I ask to live with my mom even though I rather live here? My mom lives far from here. I dont want to switch schools.

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17 minutes ago
I only told the truth because my step mom figured out I lied because I told her it happened in the summer time but my brother wasn't even here and then I wrote it down and said it happened a couple months ago. I know it was wrong but now they expect me to go tell everyone at school i lied. If I do they will think im just trying to cover up for him anyways. How do I fix it? Some friends are giving him attitude and going up to him and telling him off. I know I deserve to be grounded but my step mom told me that im lucky she's not my age because she would clean the street with my face if she was. Now she tries to be nice but i know she hates me and my step brother doesnt seem mad but she told him to try to be mature about it not to be mean.

2006-12-26 05:33:26 · 12 answers · asked by Metallica 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

12 answers

THAT was a crappy thing to do. Girls like you make it harder on girls who really are being abused.

You SHOULD go tell everyone at school that you lied about your step brother and then just deal with the results.

You did a VERY bad thing and should do whatever it takes to make up to your brother.

2006-12-26 05:35:49 · answer #1 · answered by ScubaGuy 3 · 2 2

ok...first things first...YES you should tell everyone that you lied. Imagine if someone....a relative...told everyone you know, that you did that to them!! How embarrassing...it would really hurt you. But I will say this...everyone makes mistakes....and you will get through this and so will everyone else. You need to apologize to him first. And explain why you did it. He probably doesn't even know why you would do this to him. But he will forgive you. If not now...then eventually. He doesn't seem too mad anyways. But i am sure he is hurt. Just take a minute and put yourself in his shoes....and your parents shoes. Take a second and realize that in a few months or so....everyone will be talking about something else. But you don't want this to go on forever, so just say your sorry. It will take a lot off your mind and you wont feel so bad. I had a lot of rough times in school, but now when i look back on it....it does not even matter! You will see. Do what you think is right. Do what you would want someone to do for you....if that was done to you.
Everything will be ok soon. Take care and good luck.
P.S. Your family doesn't hate you ....they just don't understand why you did that. That's all. They do love you...they are just upset and confused.

2006-12-26 13:46:22 · answer #2 · answered by mslatin 1 · 0 0

Sounds like u are jealous of your stepbrother and want to cause him distress.
Look, be mature about yourself, making up lies is very immature.
Love your stepbrother as if he was your real brother and respect him also.
Your stepma loves u just as same as her son but u got to do your part by being good and helping her out around the house.
Find good hobbies and read books that will make u wise.
Stay away from ill gossip that the lil devil in your brain is trying to get u to cause troubles.
Read the Bible when u feel the devil tellin u to do bad things.

2006-12-26 13:40:08 · answer #3 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0 0

Wow, that is a horrible thing! You are a very nasty, horrible person. You have no guilt about accusing your brother of that? You deserve to be grounded and to be locked in your room until you grow up and get some morals.

2006-12-26 13:36:48 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Goodkat 7 · 0 0

You sound spoiled to me... If you have the stupidity to accuse your own step-brother of something that nasty and then have the decency to spread it around to you classmates, then you deserve to be forced away from your friends and move to another town.

Consider what you put your step-brother through. You could have even put him behind bars!!! And do you know what that means??? He would have been forced away from his family and friends... and he didnt even do anything!

2006-12-26 13:37:46 · answer #5 · answered by I am Crystal S. 5 · 0 0

grit you teeth, take a deep breath and make it clear to everyone that you lied.
It's good that you know you've done wrong, but youve got to understand that your putting your step mum's son through a bad time. Not everyone is going to believe you lied, and are going to class him as a perve or something similar.
Imagine yourself in his place, or your step mum's. I know it must be hard for you, but you've got to try and make things right
good luck

2006-12-26 13:49:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

sounds like your dad needs to take a step back and take another look at your stepmom seems to me that someone needs to wipe the street w/her face and as for you ,tell the truth it will all be ok in the end.

2006-12-26 13:38:29 · answer #7 · answered by Tiffany M 1 · 0 0

Go live with your mom. I see no good way out of this or to repair it. Get a fresh start and remember it's harder to remember a lie than the trueth.

2006-12-26 14:44:14 · answer #8 · answered by aelenaj 2 · 0 0

stay in your room 4 a while and then pray that everything will be alright. what i do when im mad, sad, lonely, or very angry is I go to bed early.

2006-12-26 13:38:17 · answer #9 · answered by dolphins1817 2 · 0 0

stay



that was a bad idea young lady

2006-12-26 13:37:43 · answer #10 · answered by nano 2 · 0 0

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