Ok a few days ago my boyfriend of two years broke up with me.we have broke up 7 times in the past and have seem to get back together every time. most of the time we broke up it was becase i acused him of cheating ,one time this gurl called my cfone telling me to leave him alone because he's her boyfriend. I love him so much, now we are in different high schools and one of his ex gurl friends told him i was cheating on him and she go's to his school.He called me and ask was it true and i told him no which was the truth he said he belives me which i know he didn't Then a everything seem like it was fine until last week when he sends me a message through the enternet telling me he's done and that when i find out that he had been cheating on me with another mixed gurl.to find this out hurt me so bad and i know beging him to stay with me is somthing i shouldn't do ,but i am 16 years old and ive been with him fovever. Please help me
2006-12-26 05:27:07 · 8 answers · asked by Red 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't get used to an unhealthy relationship. Make sure it is love, mey be you are just "used to be with him". Now, look forward to the future, if you get married, how do you like to be dealing with other girls going out with him? Would that make a happy marriage?
Now, on the other hand, if you are just being paranoic, you need to resolve your issue first, but if you have hard evidence of him deceiving you, cry a little (or a lot) and forget about him once and for all.
2006-12-26 06:31:00 · answer #1 · answered by skydiver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, definately do NOT beg. It will only make you look pathetic and he'll want you even less. I know it's hard but it sounds like you need to move on. It'll really suck for a while but just try to get over this guy and you'll meet someone else eventually that you'll be happy with. I know it's easier said than done but once you've moved on you'll be so much happier.
2006-12-26 05:37:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey girl please!! you are 16 you are not even close to the half of forever... I think what you should do is brake up with this guy because he is giving you headaches that you should not even experience yet.. just think about this your boyfriend knows you are in love with him and that is why he is enjoying you going crazy over him his laughing at you and you are letting him... LISTEN TO ME im 36 years old im a experience woman im going to give the best advice ever when it comes to things like this. rule number one NEVER LOVE ANYBODY MORE THAN YOU LOVE YOUR SELF,MEN COME AND GO YOU ARE IN YOUR LIFE FOR EVER.. rule number two... NEVER LET A MAN KNOW THAT YOU ARE FEELING WEAK FOR HIM.. HE WILL USE THIS AGAINST YOU EVERY TIME... IF YOU HAVE TO CRY GO AWAY FROM HIM AND DO ALL THE SCREAMING YOU WANT IF FRONT OF HIM YOU ARE AS COLD AS ICE.. MEN HATE THIS, WHEN THEY DONT HAVE CONTROL OF YOUR FEELINGS IT DRIVES THEM CRAZY... rule number three
IN YOUR LIFE YOU SHOULD THINK ABOUT YOU FIRST SECOND AND LAST IF NOT YOU THEN WHO?? IGNORE HIM LEAVE HIM AND GIVE YOUR SELF A PAD IN THE BACK BECAUSE YOU LEFT HIM HE DIDNT LEFT YOU.. IS BETTER TO BE THE DUMPER THAN THE DUMPEE..... if you follow this trough your life I PERSONALLY GUARANTEE YOU A BETTER AND MORE PRODUCTIVE LIFE PEACE OF MIND IS SOMETHING THAT ONLY YOU CAN ACCOMPLISH... THE BEST GIFT TO YOUR SELF FROM YOUR SELF.... ENJOY BEING YOUNG LOVE LIFE AND YOUR PERSON.. DON'T LET A MAN MAKE YOU OUT TO BE A WELCOME MAT.. BE A LEADER NOT A FOLLOWER.. GOOD LUCK HON.
2006-12-26 05:52:00 · answer #3 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT GO BACK TO HIM ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER WELL NOT ALL THE TIME PPL DO CHANGE BUT IT TAKES A WHIL KID YOUR ONLY 16 THERE WILL BE MOE PEOPLE OUT THERE TRUST ME SORRY TO KALL YOU A KID I MEAN IM 16 TO BUT FOR NOW JUST DATE DIFFRENT PEOPLE DONT GET ATTACHED BUT WHEN YOU THINK YOU HAVE FOUND THAT ONE PERSON THAT WONT CHEAT ON YOU WONT HURT YOU GO 4 IT STICK WITH HIM THIS GUY THAT CHEATED ON YOU IS FUKED UP DONT GO BACK TRUST ME HE WILL PROBALLY DO IT AGAIN
2006-12-26 05:38:43 · answer #4 · answered by Vanessa Foo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't beg because then it makes you look desperate. Just let what ever happens just let it happen. So, practically I'm tellling you to just let it go. You desrve better if he treats you like that.
2006-12-26 06:03:54 · answer #5 · answered by Sexaygurl485 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey,leave him now and stay gone,u can do better.u have a whole life ahead of u.there r more and better fish in the sea.
2006-12-26 05:35:15 · answer #6 · answered by Tiffany M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your too young for a relationship anyways and oh hell I hate talkin to teens in this forum. NEVER BEG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-26 05:30:08 · answer #7 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl please your too young!!!!!!!!!!! let me tell you whats gonna happend you two will break up he will date someone else and so are you then you will forget obout each other and move on.
2006-12-26 05:33:34 · answer #8 · answered by issa r 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋