to clarify I am the boyfriend I don't know what it is but its like I want it all the time now, Is this normal or am i just a selfish jerk? I had never went down before but after i did it once I love it and now i want to do it all the time now and its like I want sex all the time, don't get me wrong I love her and we are planning on getting married so thats not all that I want but I just feel bad because she is going through a lot right now and this pregnancy has been 10x worse than her first is this normal for me to want it this much all of a sudden?
2006-12-26 05:16:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If she is preventing you to have it when you want more than usual, that normally makes you want it even more. It's kind of like if you smoke, Just after you smoke your last cigarette in a pack and you don't have another, you want one right afterwards. But if you have another cig, you won't need one for 15-60 minutes. But dude, stock up on the jergens. your going to need it. But don't worry, now that my daughter is 4 months old, Her mommie has been as horny as ever. That makes me a happy mother f*cker
2006-12-26 05:23:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont have oral sex right now, it can cause air to end up in the vagina which can cause life threatening blood clots with her being pregnant.
I think its pretty normal for a lot of guys to get that crazy sex drive towards the end. Probably mostly because women are so NOT interested by that point. Or, on the flip side, their libido is raging.
Iam so not even interested in sex right now ( iam 9 months) and because of my refusal all the time, its like my husband is suddenly a hound dog. Where before I had to BEG him to have sex since we got married, he's ALWAYS trying to get me into bed now.
Just dont hound her. It really is annoying. I seriously want to slap him some times. I feel bad that I seriously cant talk myself into even laying there and sleeping through it, and him always trying to get me to give in is ANNOYING.
2006-12-26 05:20:54 · answer #2 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You pig.
Just kidding.
Your girlfriend isn't interested in sex right now because she is uncomfortable, feels like a whale and is probably a little B*tchy.
You on the other hand want it because you can't have it.
DO NOT try oral as it is dangerous for her, if she doesn't mind doing you that's fine but don't do her as there is a chance of air penetrating and causing blood clots. Hold on and wait for things to finish up. Don't pusher her too soon afterwards as she might still be sore or still not interested in sex too soon afterwards, then again she might just come looking for you.
2006-12-26 05:55:00 · answer #3 · answered by Julie Hartford 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, most guys don't even want to mess with a pregnant woman cause they think it is gross or something.. I would say if she is not complaining.... Then I wouldn't worry about it. My Husband is the same way.. Me being pregnant never bothered him.. It made me feel better that he wanted to still have sex and wasn't bothered by it. Girls get the feeling of not feeling sexy if they are not used to being fat. I would say your helping her self esteam. Just be careful at this far along... You can push her into labor.. Good luck!!
I wouldn't say your selfish if your being thoughtful enough to ask .. It shows you care.. Ask her..
2006-12-26 05:26:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes for some it is, my husband found me very sexy when i was pregnant and he did extra things for me just so i would be less tired and have some extra time to have sex. He should me he loved me by cleaning house and shopping with me and doing the laundry, not all the time cause he worked full time but he went out of his way to show me, so i felt i could show he too. and they say alot of organisms and the release of the hormones does make labor easier, oh and do not forget the massages too, Happy sexy new year you hose monkey.
2006-12-26 05:29:16 · answer #5 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men find pregnant women more attractive. and maybe thats the case with you. Maybe you are seeing her in a different way than you did before and its making you want sex more. But as long as the doc says its ok for her to have sex, and as long as she is up to it... go for it,
Get your groove on
2006-12-26 05:21:41 · answer #6 · answered by KTINA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is totally normal, but don't have oral sex right now.
2006-12-26 05:25:21 · answer #7 · answered by Loola 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then do it.
2006-12-26 05:18:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋