ok soo my friend likes..as in...LOVES!... this guy (for his looks..)
but that guy finds her as being really annoying
becuz she goes to get snacks from the vending machine JUST to c him..(cuz he sits near the machine..during lunch..so..)
and he found out that my friend likes him cuz its THT obvious..lol
and he comes up to me..and tells me.. "tell your friend..i said absolutely NO!"
i cant tell her tht! it wud b too mean! and i tried hintin it to her..but she just doesnt get the pic.
i dont kno wat to do
any suggestions???
2006-12-26 05:13:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
as a friend its your duty to correct your friends behaviour. talk to her. be polite but honest. tell her that she should control her feelings and not become desperate. tell her what that guy said about her. yes she will cry. but it should be your shoulders that she should cry on. just imagin this. she still thiks that she has got a chance with that giy. what if she goes and proposes him and they guy behaves rudely with her out of irritation? dont you think she will be more embaressed then?
just make sure that you are alone wit your friend (not even some one from your group should be there) when you tell her this.
its not wrong that she likes a guy but she should not expect the guy to like her back. give this example to her that if some guy had a crish on her but she doesnt likes that guy at all. then how will she feel if that guy keeps following her every were or she is forced to go around with him?
2006-12-26 19:20:31 · answer #1 · answered by urfriendfrlife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would understand why you don't want to tell her yourself because you don't want her being hurt by you (in a sense) , but you must consider that this is only the most logical option. It would be worst if the boy would tell her this himself in front of many people, because based on his reactions , he could, if he really gets irritated. So do it yourself , in the right place and in the right time. Tell her that , you consider her your true friend and THAT IS WHY you have to tell her the truth.
2006-12-27 04:29:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better tell her the truth and tell her to be avoide him. If suppose you friend marry him and later he can go with other girls too. Don;t think it would hurt her , saying the truth atleast will save her life.
2006-12-26 19:15:57 · answer #3 · answered by Mayandi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats the problem to say her that he has said no???????
see she has not asked ur answer for which she'll get upset on you
you r just answering her what he has told u .
so i feel its nothin to worry abt that ur frnd ll get upset on you n u shud tell it as early as possible so that she ll come out of the dreaming .
so help ur frnd to live in reality bcoz she cannot force him to love her n its nothing mean abt it if he doesnt like to be with someone then why shud he tell yesss ......its his life n no one can force him to live it according to them
go n say straightly that he has refused ur proposal
thats it....
2006-12-26 14:15:05 · answer #4 · answered by gauri k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that "That guy has proposed me (you) for ____"
What ever you think fit put in the blanks.
She will understand with out further discussion.
2006-12-26 14:09:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it is kind of mean if u say straight to her like that, but u can tell that guy to tell her by himself, it would be more better.
2006-12-26 14:23:43 · answer #6 · answered by deer8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just write it on a piece of paper and give tht paper to her...she would read herself....as simple as tht...
2006-12-26 15:46:34 · answer #7 · answered by kusum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes even i say its better to start now never be late .....dont loose and then cry
2006-12-27 01:29:52 · answer #8 · answered by shiva k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever u do,do it as early as you can
2006-12-26 19:44:34 · answer #9 · answered by maya 92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋