Abortion and What does it mean when you have a tilted uterus??

Question

First of all I had an abortion feb 4th, 2006 and now i feel horrible i know i made a huge mistake and i feel HORRIBLE now.. I did it for my mom ironically because she was sooo dissapointed and claims she wanted better for me. She almost in a way pushed me and since i was 17 i just went with her cuz she was my mommy. ( By the way my bf didnt want me to have the abortion) Anyway is it normal to want to get pregnant now? Im only 18 now and i really want a child..... Also when i went i had to get an ultrasound and the nurse couldnt see my baby with the traditional stomach/gel ultrasound. She had to do a vaginal one and after she got the image she proceeded to tell me i had a tilted uterus and i have heard my mom say that she has one too. What the heck does that mean?? I mean really?

Thanks

Answer 1

many women have a tilted uterus, it's just a simple anomaly and doesn't mean much other than difficulty for ultrasound techs.
As for your issues around your abortion, suggest strongly that you see a counsellor and talk it over. You are obviously having difficulty thinking thru this issue clearly and a counsellor can help you.

Answer 2

You obviously do not want an obortion, so don't let him talk you into it! You will 100% regret it and you will resent him for it and probably end up breaking up with him over it, whether you're in love or not! He needs to be a big boy. If he's willing to have a baby 'in a year', then has it not occurred to him that the current PGcy will last 9 months, which is very close to a year? He'll either get over it and man up or he'll be a weasel and run and hide, shirking his responsibilities. Would you rather he ran away and you still have your baby, or are you willing to give up your infant to hang onto your BF for a little while longer (though as I said, if you abort, you'll likely end up resenting him and dumping him anyhow!).

Answer 3

I have a tilted uterus too, and it is no big deal. It simply means that your uterus tilts towards the small of your back rather than being more straight up and down. Usually, this is something you are born with. It generally doesn't cause any problems and is nothing to worry about it. It usually straightens during pregnancy (after the first trimester).

Many women have a strong desire to conceive another baby after abortion. However, I encourage you to wait until you are married and can provide a stable home for your child. I am glad to know that you regret your abortion and are honest with yourself about it. I really encourage you to go through the free post-abortion program at http://www.healinghearts.org They have an excellent online post-abortion study, and just about all of their email counselors have aborted babies themselves. They can help you work through all of the issues you are dealing with, including your relationship with your mother and your desire to become pregnant again.

If anyone here is thinking about abortion, please visit http://Abort73.com before you do something you will regret the rest of your life.

Answer 4

A tilted uterus is nothing to worry about. The only problem is until you are far along in a pregnancy they have to do vaginal ultrasounds to see the baby. I have one and so does my mother. I have had 2 children and all went fine.

Answer 5

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Enjoying the feeling of motherhood and raising a family would surely be a couple’s dream. Some get it naturally, while for some others things don’t seem to work as they desire. These reasons which stop a women from conceiving can be due to either physical reasons or truly physiological.

Answer 6

I bet your bf feels bad that you killed his child.