Well i'm so confused, i'm gonna go on a date cause i can't wait for this friend who says he loves me (i can't wait cause i've got cancer). Anyways i really wish he (my friend) would finally get to it, i love him so much, but don't want to waste my time. Is there any advice?
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1 day ago
He knows about the cancer, and he knows i love him LIKE THAT!! And he says he wants to date me, but i just don't have time. We're "just friends for now" according to him.
1 day ago
OMG denise! Im dying from cancer and u answer about me being gay is wrong???????? Says what kinda person u are!
1 day ago
I am not rushing him, in fact he is still under the impression i will wait for him, just i can't wait anymore.
2006-12-26 05:05:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
just go for it...tell him...youve only got so much time left..do what makes you happy..and im very sorry that thats happening to you...
2006-12-28 05:37:45 · answer #1 · answered by KIP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, dude.
If your days are numbered, and he knows about it..... I can't comprehend how he can't find the time to be with you.
Sounds ridiculous.
Go out, have a good time.
You only have on life, and unfortunately, yours is much shorter than others- so, you don't have a choice but to "take it to the limit" and live to the fullest in your last days.
Gotta "take my hat off" to you, you MUST be a one tough Mo-Fo.
Most people would have folded and counted their days.
ROCK ON, DUDE.
2006-12-26 13:32:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sit down with him and tell him exactly what you want from him. maybe he is not prepared to get close to someone who is dying. if he doesnt want to date you go for someone else. maybe you should be concentrating on spending the time you have left with family and friends. hope some treatments could heal you of the cancer. maybe you should post a question about treatments on the site. hope things work out for you man! peace..!
2006-12-26 13:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by wanderingstar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You owe it to yourself to make every day count. He isn't worth waiting for.
Have a good time on your date....hope you meet someone great!
2006-12-27 16:58:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch to enrich your life.
2006-12-28 12:15:34 · answer #5 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋