what am i suppose to do?????

Question

My best friend- and cousin dates this guy that she liked for 3 days, when i've liked him for 4 months. And she goes, I didnt meant o hurt ur feelings when i told her that it would hurt me if she said yes. She chose a guy over me, and now she says its all complicated. I tried to protect her feelings before when guys she liked, liked me, but she just turned around and stabbed me in the back. I can't belive she did this to me! what should i do? she said its either hurting him or me, but she already hurt me!!!!!! what should i do? i cant just forget about all this cuz its caused me sooo much pain already. She just gladly came up to me and said I SAID YES TO HIM! :] I felt like crying right there. WHAT SHOULD I DO???????????????
how can we solve all this???????
we never used to care about guys this much, and we always use to have fun and now we r kinda sorting it out but we r still in a fight!!!!!
how can we untangle this web??????

Answer 1

If you are the good guy here, then you can either continue to be the good guy, or you can go on the offensive. I dont think you are this type of person. You will probably let people walk all over you your whole life.
Why do I say that? After all, you liked this guy for 4 months. What did you do about it in that time? Sounds like you were waiting for something, and then he asked your friend out and she said yes. From her point of view, you were sitting on your hands doing nothing for 4 months. You had your chance.
I know it sounds cliche and it wont help the pain you feel right now, but there are a lot of fish in the sea. You will find someone else that grabs your fancy. This time dont wait to find out if he will warm up to you. Go for it. Learn from your mistakes. Dont hold a grudge against your friend. You should laugh about it later.

Answer 2

First, spend your time doing things with other girlfriends and as a general rule never put boys at the center of your life. Chalk this up as a learning experience. Fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me. When you do decide to have a boyfriend keep it private. You'll be surprised at the number of girls who will start eying your boyfriend simply because they know you. Now you know, even though this is your cousin, you know what type of person your cousin really is. You should continue being her friend at a distance. This boy who is thrilled at playing you both and is having fun doing it will not be in the picture long. Once he gets what he wants or doesn't get what he wants, he'll be gone. She'll always be your cousin but until she matures love her from a distance. Focus on applying some of that FUN you mentioned you had with girlfriends and you'll be a much happier teen.

Answer 3

I don't think you're best friend is considering your feelings. You've been a good friend to her but have you thought that she might be jealous of you (because she could have found out the guys she liked liked you instead) and so she wanted to do something to hurt you. I think you should talk to her and tell straight out how you feel. You should also tell her that you've been loyal to her but what happened to HER loyalty to you?
Good luck

Answer 4

i think u shuld just move on frm this guy. i mean yeah u must have liked hi an all, but does he like u?? ---the answers pretty obvious if hes datin ur cousin. i think wat u have wit ur cousin is way more important.so 4get the ghuys an u'll probably find some1 hotter an wat not anyways .....an get in touch with ur cousin an fun again!!

Answer 5

If you two are that close don't allow a guy to come between you two. You seem young and I'm sure you'll find someone else and so will she. :-)

Answer 6

I think you should just apologize and find another guy.

Answer 7

blood lastfforever. boys dont.